Tip of the Day Archive

March 11, 2008

Adjusting to the fallout of divorce takes time and a positive outlook, even about big changes.

March 10, 2008

When a relationship has more stress than shared enjoyment, it’s time for The Talk about whether it’s worth staying together.

March 8, 2008

Moving forward means not being afraid to look back.

March 7, 2008

Don’t turn a negative experience into a lifelong saga of woe; real life is what you make of it.

March 6, 2008

When working for a negative boss, take positive steps to boost your own outlook.

March 5, 2008

When a partner shows unusual anger and judgment towards an in-law, the problem sometimes rests in the couple’s relationship.

March 4, 2008

When fury persists over an old relationship, it means you need to forgive yourself, more than the other person.

March 3, 2008

A broken heart over a break up often reflects anger at oneself, as much as the other person.

March 1, 2008

When battle lines are drawn down the marital bed, the fight isn’t about love and babies.

February 29, 2008

When you’re unhappy at home, poaching on someone else’s happiness isn’t the answer.

February 28, 2008

Breaking up IS hard to take, especially if you wallow in the past.

February 27, 2008

When major decisions are based around only one partner’s needs and feelings, the “team spirit” is bound to fade.

February 26, 2008

Teenage relationships come with huge emotional swings, requiring parents to set out boundaries and protections.

February 25, 2008

Sneaking around to see an ex is demeaning to the couple’s relationship.

February 23, 2008

Allowing a serious marital problem to persist, for fear of confrontation, only creates a later firestorm.

February 22, 2008

An affair is sometimes only an escapist interlude, and not a desire for divorce.

February 21, 2008

Major life decisions such as whether to have children aren’t always final.

February 20, 2008

When there’s a “secret somebody” barring the doorway to a date, the person you want is not free.

February 19, 2008

When sexual drive lessens, look for reasons and solutions, rather than blaming or giving up.

February 18, 2008

When a child is born from a spouse’s affair, that child’s well-being is more important than the anger of any adult involved.

February 16, 2008

February 15, 2008

No marriage vow should bind someone to accept true abuse; safety comes before all other negotiations.

February 14, 2008

Happy Valentine’s Day – an opportunity to celebrate all the loving relationships in your life!

February 13, 2008

Do not approach a problem with a bullhorn and bat, when a quiet conversation might just work.

February 12, 2008

In a loving relationship, one partner must not act superior.

February 11, 2008

Adult table manners are a sensitive topic: Guide, but don’t lecture.

February 9, 2008

Power struggles aren’t about the actual topic, but about whether two people can solve disagreements.

February 8, 2008

All relationships have peaks and valleys; find ways to appreciate the ordinary times, and to occasionally renew the spark.

February 7, 2008

“Are you going to have children?” is NOT a casual question; it’s intrusive and None of Your Business.

February 6, 2008

Children of addicted parents can benefit from support groups, and may also need professional help.

February 5, 2008

When your values are totally different, it’s time to cool the friendship.

February 4, 2008

When doing “everything” for another isn’t working, change your whole approach.

February 2, 2008

When a relationship is hugely different from what you expected, make sure you can deal with the consequences.

February 1, 2008

When watching porn interferes with a relationship, the tension can easily build towards a break-up.

January 31, 2008

Speaking up is the way to insist on a partnership; staying silent will eventually lead you to flee.

January 30, 2008

A long distance relationship cannot thrive on suspicion and drama.

January 29, 2008

Look for the way into a difficult discussion through recognizing what factors could’ve created the problem.

January 28, 2008

The first involvement after a major break-up is often the Transition Romance, but not the last one.

January 26, 2008

Happiness that’s self-centered can become a lonely one-way street.

January 25, 2008

When a separation is inevitable, so is the need for learning your legal rights and responsibilities.

January 24, 2008

When you find yourself going down the same path with each relationship, examine how you make your choices.

January 23, 2008

Grandparents need to respect their children’s rights to raise their kids as they choose, so long as there are no abuse issues.

January 22, 2008

Daydreaming about “the one that got away” can be destructive to holding onto the one you chose instead.

January 21, 2008

When suspicions take over your ability to enjoy a relationship, it’s time to be pro-active about your next move, rather than wait for calamity.

January 19, 2008

Co-parenting with an ex – along with his/her new spouse – takes putting criticisms last, and your child’s comfort level first.

January 18, 2008

Long distance relationships require efforts and plans by both sides for contact and visits.

January 17, 2008

“Breaks with rules” are usually a signal that the relationship just isn’t working.

January 16, 2008

When any problem makes you feel hopeless, call your local distress centre immediately to re-connect with all that’s worthwhile in yourself.

January 15, 2008

Secrets and lies are destructive to a marriage, they never “save” the situation.

January 14, 2008

Confronting a former abuser, personally, should only be done after counselling has made you stronger within yourself.

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