Tip of the Day Archive

January 22, 2021

If negative about a relationship, caving in is unfair to you both.

January 21, 2021

A parent’s ongoing love/support for a child deserves equal support when the aging parent needs it.

January 20, 2021

Emotional cheating may exist in the hurt view of a partner especially if “another” woman or man is involved.

January 19, 2021

A long-loving partnership is a gift. Grief’s process takes slow steps to accept loss.

January 18, 2021

Don’t dismiss the notion of a healthy and satisfying sex life for older people.

January 16, 2021

With love, shared values, and children’s interests in mind,

living together is worth waiting for during this pandemic.

January 15, 2021

Stop fighting, learn to communicate, show your children a better way.

January 14, 2021

The wise parent is a leader by example regarding adult children’s disputes, not a referee.

January 13, 2021

If possible, consider a partner’s affair as an alarm for help for your relationship through counselling.

January 12, 2021

Caring in-laws can be a resource of love and emotional support.

January 11, 2021

The COVID-19 pandemic carries one inescapable message: Your health and safety are precious and we ARE all in this together.


January 9, 2021

How a divorcing couple deals with their house, finances and wills regarding it all, can reassure adult children of the connection to their parents, or divide a family further.

January 8, 2021

Jealousy and distrust are destructive to a relationship. Clear any reasons for doubt, or get professional help.

January 7, 2021

Divorce isn’t only about the couple involved. There’s often a secondary dividing of relationships with others – once-close in-laws, friends you once shared. Some remain close, others take sides.

January 6, 2021

Depression is real. Offering assistance to get someone professional help is a true gift of caring.

January 5, 2021

There are proven approaches to repairing relationship resentments through counselling, therapy or coaching.

Start the path to change by asking yourself some important questions.

January 4, 2021

Grief takes time to heal, for everyone. But children’s loss of a parent is a blow that hurts forever.

January 2, 2021

When you want to marry someone, say so. Even when apart, love can flourish.

January 1, 2021

When a partner’s depressed, drinking, and lying, it’s time for serious efforts towards professional help.

December 31, 2020

Simple changes can renew your partnering connections.

December 30, 2020

Don’t make assumptions about women who work with your husband/boyfriend. If you feel he’s going to cheat, that’s a problem about him… or the marriage.

December 29, 2020

When an unmet online dater professes early “love,” steel yourself for the “ask” of money and/or private security information.

December 28, 2020

Never having a “serious relationship chat,” means having no voice about your life together.

December 26, 2020

Marriage break-up affects even the in-law parents/grandparents caught in the drama.

December 25, 2020

This Christmas is a national celebration, not only of our secular traditions related to it. Along with our diverse faiths, it’s about who we are as a people and will be again – resilient, hopeful, staying the course to outlive the pandemic.

December 24, 2020

Don’t “counsel” your relationship partner. Instead, support his/her getting professional help.

December 23, 2020

Relationship counselling’s available online during the pandemic. Find the “right fit.”


December 22, 2020

Couples need to talk together – not interrogate, suspect, and label.

December 21, 2020

A new relationship with an odd, unexplained flaw from early on, rarely becomes a lasting bond.

December 19, 2020

Adult children of divorce can re-learn relationship trust from counselling.

December 18, 2020

An adult brother can no longer bully you when it comes to your protecting your mother from COVID-19.

December 17, 2020

When a spouse feels intense attachment elsewhere, discuss feelings/intensions and seek counselling help.

December 16, 2020

Early abandonment by her father can turn a daughter to blaming her mother, even into adulthood.

December 15, 2020

Try to prevent COVID-19 from destroying family relationships. Tension/fear can weaken needed energy to stay safe.

December 14, 2020

Consider this: If your lover weren’t married, would you be chosen for marriage, or just for cheating?

December 12, 2020

Don’t let a lockdown bring out the worst of your relationship from the past. Use it for connecting positively whenever possible.

December 11, 2020

A healthy relationship mantra for 2020: Adapt and accept what’s essential to safe survival without risking others.

December 10, 2020

The time for choosing a life partner is when you’re certain that he/she is the one you love, respect and trust.

December 9, 2020

An affair doesn’t have to end a marriage. What matters is why it happened and what can be saved and/or revived.

December 8, 2020

Online dating? Ask questions, listen, discuss interests, make a “meaningful connection” before you imagine that it’s a romantic relationship.

December 7, 2020

Using sex to bargain, your girlfriend insists you separate from your wife before she’ll trust you.

December 5, 2020

Sometimes love and happiness count more than the issue you’re letting divide you from it.

December 4, 2020

Unconditional love is built on caring deeply, sharing good and bad, adapting and staying the course.

December 3, 2020

Feeling “stuck” in your marriage while loving another, hurts everyone involved.

December 2, 2020

Committed second-time relationships after a loss or divorce need to be respected be other family members.

December 1, 2020

Repeatedly choosing dangerous relationship partners is a desperate cry for help.

November 30, 2020

Someone who talks a lot about a spouse who’s died, may still be mourning the loss. Or shares his/her past story to become closer with you.

November 28, 2020

Divorce is hard on everyone involved. Understand the legal process. Try marital and/or personal counselling. Focus on children’s needs.

November 27, 2020

When embattled siblings refuse peace-making, show them emotional/health effects on other family members.

November 26, 2020

Seek remedies for co-workers’ lies/gossip while rising above them.

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