When former lovers intrude into a present relationship, signal a firm and final Good-bye.

A major behaviour change can signal a health problem and should be checked.

No one partner should dominate the direction of the relationship throughout its duration.

When you loan money to people of whom you disapprove, lower your expectations.

Parents of adult children must remember their role is now only supportive, not custodial.

Relationships need an acknowledged, total commitment, to survive severe stresses.

When marriage plans damage the relationship, delay, and re-think the process, or the goal.

The “gifts” from a wedding shouldn’t be the only symbol of the relationships involved.

Couples almost always face accepting the other partner’s past.

Strong disagreement over having a child is a deal-breaker, unless one party gives in before resentment takes over.

When you reach out with compassion, the big picture has new meaning.

An abusive environment needs to be changed, or left behind.

Nurturing old trust issues is a sure way to wilt a current relationship.

With a “dual-personality” partner, consider the weight of the bad behaviour, against the good.

Workaholics are often driven by reasons they don’t even know, yet their behaviour affects whole families.

Love only conquers all, when lovers can conquer their own obstacles.

An “ex” in the picture means complications, period.

Serial relationships require time between, for reflecting, and re-energizing to move forward.

The views of friends on your relationship are only opinions, not instructions.

Even in a tough economy, love counts most.

You can stop a soap-opera relationship, by not playing your role in it.

When a partner experiences a parents’ decline, be prepared for his/her period of private pain.

When a child of divorce is alienated from one parent, it takes patience and persistence to regain a connection.

When your home situation causes more misery than support, it’s time to work towards striking out for yourself.

A relationship with the wrong person can leave you lonelier than before.

Relationship patterns that leave both sides dissatisfied (and alone) need to be revised for a different age.

When relationship doubts arise, be certain you know their source.

“Taking” more than “giving” usually leaves loneliness as its payback.

Combat racism with hope and determination, not despair.

The demands on a single, working parent aren’t easy, but the kids will respond better if they’re not made aware of resentments.

Bearing another man’s child is NOT a secret that can stay uncovered for long.

When a bad relationship appeals more than a good one, it’s a self-directed problem that needs investigation.

If you date with a deadline, you’ll miss out more than your timing.

When a partner’s under terrible pressure, it’s time for support, not complaints.

When a charmer comes on too strong, stay cool and wary.

Complicated relationships require delicate handling over time.

Children need time to build trust and feel accepted when there’s a new “step-parent” in their lives.

An affair on the run can never be a full relationship.

It’s not always the differences that matter, but the way they impact on your life together and children, that demand changes.

Young relationships are part of a learning curve to help you develop good judgment about potential partners.

On this Valentine’s Day, remember to give love to someone as well as hope to receive it.

When you act selfishly and irresponsibly, no relationship can thrive.

When bad choices are your pattern, it’s time to look inward for the causes and for change.

Divorced parents can best maintain a balance of influences on their children by keeping communication open with the kids and exes.

A divorced parent needs a partner who accepts his/her responsibilities to another family.

When there’s dirt to be spread about your ex, keep your mouth closed and your conscience clean.

When you’re hit with multiple losses, you need to push yourself to gather your inner strength to move forward.

When you suspect an affair, ask important questions about your own relationship.

After you’ve called for a break-up, be careful not to send the wrong messages through over-involvement.

In a union involving different languages, both sides have to meet halfway.