Tip of the Day Archive
It’s a basic rule of dating and decency: Don’t mislead someone who cares for you.
Long-distance relationships require mutual trust and respect to be successful.
Grief can spark healthy reflection on what you value in yourself and others.
Keep your wedding joy paramount despite any others’ negativity.
Constant complaining will erode a relationship, especially if there’s also dependency involved.
A good listener can act on important clues about a friend, such as signals of post-partum depression.
Respect the deep sensitivity of women experiencing problems conceiving.
If it’s apparent that a close friendship will be lost over a casual fling, choose wisely.
Don’t build false fears about having a wanted baby whom you’re well able to manage.
Sports-related fury signals broader anger issues to be managed.
Better to confess an affair than have it be revealed during divorce process.
A roommate who uses you, risks losing you.
When teenage pressures overwhelm, talk to someone mature, experienced and understanding.
End contact from someone who strings you along as second choice.
Casual flirting may only be friendly, not a dating signal.
Don’t let gratitude obscure your need to secure your children’s future.
A marriage must mainly become the business of the couple, not the entire extended family.
Pursue professional advice before agreeing to sponsor an abusive parent.
Stay determined to improve your health and longevity, no matter a partner’s opposition.
Constant analysis by text and chat becomes a fatal blow to relationships.
If you want to end a family drama, refuse to watch it.
Self-esteem and dating selectively are two keys to finding the “right” partner, at any age.
After a break-up, give yourself time to reflect and heal.
People in serious relationships should avoid private contact with past sexual partners (unless children are involved).
Let someone know you appreciate them and see if his/her feelings develop on their own.
When seeking set-up for a date, show that you’re trustworthy and not only looking for arm candy.
A child from the past is a current reality, not just an intrusion in your life.
Don’t embarrass yourself by acting on a private crush.
Respond to a parent who abandoned you as your heart decides, but you owe no guilt feelings.
Don’t let someone’s hang-ups about commitments limit your life for too long.
When a partner’s dramas are turned against you, state what’s at stake.
A stressed, depressed partner needs more understanding, and less pressure.
Emotional punishment for past mistakes eventually causes a bitter break-up.
Get to know your partner’s ex-turned-friend, instead of acting jealous without cause.
Background issues in a marriage, such as jealousy, controlling behaviour, and frequent fighting, often influence infidelity.
When you’re already vulnerable, be extra wary of someone who’s shown anger and meanness.
Stay watchful when someone you know is struggling with an abusive relationship.
Major personal changes also affect your partner and your relationship.
Juggling people’s emotions till you hurt someone you like, is a careless loser’s game.
Don’t waste your time on an Internet relationship that’s obviously deceitful.
Emotional cheating usually has a cause a couple should both explore.
Cheating rarely remains a secret. Confess, apologize, and examine what it says, both about your relationship and you.
Address red flag issues when you see them, before they become deal-breakers.
A relationship which you must hide from your parents usually has problems which you’re hiding from yourself.
Trust your instincts when doubts and discomfort are part of a still-early relationship.
Secrets and lies eventually make a relationship intolerable.
Weigh a difficult parent’s visit against how much stress you’re able to handle.
Long-term rejection of intimacy suggests deep, unrecognized issues.
A relationship is what two people decide it is, but trust and honesty are essential.
Don’t let the emotional build-up to a wedding overshadow your joy.