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Tip of the Day Archive

October 15, 2021

Early marital fights signal it’s time to learn better ways to communicate your feelings and respect your partner’s.

October 14, 2021

When pregnancy’s being discussed, both partners should expect equal involvement in parenting.

October 13, 2021

Under heavy relationship stress, be open with your partner, so you both get a chance at resolving it.

October 12, 2021

Domestic violence from a female or male is equally heinous.

October 11, 2021

Trust yourself, and trust in your growth and learned experiences.

October 9, 2021

When a date/friend/partner offers only “bread crumbs” of interest, end the relationship.

October 8, 2021

A young marriage based on years of being “best friends” calls for taking time to both be sure that you’re not just afraid to let the other move on.

October 7, 2021

Seeking dating/sexual connection, still requires health precautions regarding sexually transmissible diseases and the pandemic.

October 6, 2021

Don’t take long friendships for granted. Heal disagreements early.

October 5, 2021

When divorce issues get nasty, disengage from fighting your soon-ex. Let your lawyer explain what’s legally fair.

October 4, 2021

It’s your own affirmation that you must find. You’re productive in ways that matter greatly – participating as an involved father, loving husband, and contributing financially. Be proud of your work and life.

October 2, 2021

A single adult woman’s dating history of mutually consensual sex with unattached people, is her business only.

October 1, 2021

Senior employees can be significant mentors, sometimes when needed most.

September 30, 2021

Childhood sexual abuse can trigger traumatic memories. Consult a registered psychotherapist/child sex abuse specialist.

September 29, 2021

When there’s partner-abuse, tell the harmed person it’s never deserved, and will get worse. Help plan a safe exit.

September 28, 2021

When tragedy strikes, show kindness and caring.

September 27, 2021

Women in their 60s can still remain sexually strong with their libido intact, IF they’re not exhausted from work.

September 25, 2021

When there’s still a commitment to the marriage despite difficult times, repair and recovery are possible.

September 24, 2021

Supporting a wife’s menopause experience signals your love.

September 23, 2021

Never accept family violence. No one “deserves” it. You’re protected by laws. Contact the police and/or the family court in your legal jurisdiction.

September 22, 2021

Every family knows that its elders may someday need help. A gentle family discussion and plan can reassure all.

September 21, 2021

A controller and a freedom-lover, like a fish and a bird, can’t live together.

September 20, 2021

Recognize the wrong motives in a still-new friend’s request to borrow your most precious item.

September 18, 2021

Readers’ suggestions of books that deal with complex mother-daughter relationships are welcome.

September 17, 2021

When an ex-spouse botches plans of the happily-remarried co-parent, it’s the children that matter and the couple’s relationship.

September 16, 2021

Get help for a gambling addict, not money.

September 15, 2021

Don’t distrust a past partner’s positive appreciation of your personal growth during the pandemic. But insist on equal and shared commitment this time.

September 14, 2021

Delete the email bombardment of another’s political views. If asked directly, say you agree to disagree.

September 13, 2021

Teenage relationships are often more emotional during life’s changes. Focus on your goals, stay friends or take a break.

September 11, 2021

Don’t stigmatize women who’ve left husbands. Their reasons may benefit both spouses.

September 10, 2021

Long-lived relationships thrive on trust, respect, commitment, and seeking compromises over being right.

September 9, 2021

Creating “family” ties for children of divorce is a precious gift.

September 8, 2021

Don’t let an unapologetic determined cheater wear you down. Take charge of moving on for your and your children’s sakes.

September 7, 2021

A partner’s persistent negativity can drag everyone down – spouse, children, even adult siblings included.

September 6, 2021

Cheaters are either too cowardly to leave the marriage that’s not working or too arrogant to not realize they’ll be caught.

 

September 4, 2021

A mother who loves the limelight can be fun… until she’s not. Tell Mom it’s time for her grandkids to shine, and to encourage them.

September 3, 2021

Handle rifts/rudeness from young friends by listening, discussing or imposing a short break.

September 2, 2021

A devoted spouse’s caregiving is admirable. But some relief help is essential to maintaining energy for the task.

September 1, 2021

Where there’s hope for a scarred marriage to heal, focus on loving each other and your children’s security will follow.

August 31, 2021

Whatever your personal attitude on Covid precautions, engaging negatively with those who feel differently only adds to your own anxiety.

August 30, 2021

Rather than suffer a busybody’s intrusive monologues of gossip, state your disinterest and walk away.

August 28, 2021

When a marriage becomes a constant battleground, move on however possible. Protecting children and yourself is most important.

August 27, 2021

When pornography is the preferred partner in a relationship, love may not make it last.

August 26, 2021

Children of divorce benefit in security/comfort if parents become “divorce friends” who can attend family gatherings.

August 25, 2021

Every source of grief is hurtful. Focus on the strength and joys you have in the present.

August 24, 2021

When a close relative/friend is divorcing, be supportive. Wait till they settle before resuming friendship with their ex.

August 23, 2021

Divorced people with parenting responsibilities need increased awareness of children’s adjustment plus their own.

August 21, 2021

Enjoy your First Love. Give love unconditionally when the person and time is right.

 

August 20, 2021

When seeking counselling, research the types offered and the counsellor’s approach, to find the “right fit.”

August 19, 2021

Couples’ therapy can help a marriage thrive anew, together. Joining group sex instead, risks trust and respect.

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