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Tip of the Day Archive

November 28, 2009

Closely watch situations that may require fast action to protect your kids.

November 27, 2009

Your child is your first responsibility, especially over an adult who won’t help himself.

November 26, 2009

Family grief takes many forms, but rejecting a newcomer isn’t a healthy route.

November 25, 2009

Reach out to turn bad in-laws into family.

November 24, 2009

Choose your own child over convenience.  

November 23, 2009

For occasional family events, it’s possible to rise above others’ flaws, for the sake of harmony … and children.

November 21, 2009

When you’re left out, ignore the gossips and go to the source to find out why.

November 20, 2009

When sexual problems mess up a relationship, that’s where to start making changes.

November 19, 2009

Even adult children sometimes need parents to apply Solomon’s wisdom, and let them be.

November 18, 2009

When you stop accepting being ill treated, you can start positive changes in your life.

November 17, 2009

Partnership goes beyond a bill for renter’s space.

November 16, 2009

In a true partnership, the housework is part of the sharing

November 14, 2009

A family’s denial about a molesting relative, contributes to ongoing criminal behaviour.

November 13, 2009

Joint custody requires helping children adjust to both parents’ ways, rather than fighting over the differences.

November 12, 2009

Always accept gifts graciously, and then manage what to do with them without offending the givers.

November 11, 2009

An in-law’s personal choices are his/her right; but unacceptable language doesn’t have to be tolerated

November 10, 2009

Anger over a post-divorce settlement, albeit valid, may also be too stressful to pursue a change.

November 9, 2009

A stable family environment requires commitment instead of escapist dreams.

November 7, 2009

When an affair is your escape from reality, you’re not free, just a cheater.

November 6, 2009

When facing a life-changing decision, focus, instead of fragmenting the problem.

November 5, 2009

The silent treatment grants useless power, but solves nothing.

November 4, 2009

Serial cheaters eventually mess up openly, so there’s no need to stress on seeking evidence.

November 3, 2009

A persistent social “groper” is out of control, and needs a strong wake-up call.

November 2, 2009

Be aware of your own vulnerability for at least one year after a break-up.

October 31, 2009

Today, we can all help children experience a safe, fun Hallowe’en celebration about creativity and community spirit.

October 30, 2009

Wedding plans need two heads not one.

October 29, 2009

When impatience rules your better qualities, regrets are bound to follow.

October 28, 2009

Even in later life, love has to be sought personally, and carefully, over time.

October 28, 2009

Even in later life, love has to be sought personally, and carefully, over time.

October 27, 2009

When two people stay silent while they drift apart, they lose finding the way back.

October 26, 2009

Revealing someone’s affair to the injured party, is interference of the nasty kind.

October 24, 2009

When your relationship problems are entrenched, there are choices: Accept, adapt or abdicate.

October 23, 2009

If you’re having an affair with a married person, occasionally try to see him/her from the spouse’s viewpoint, to clarify your own.

October 22, 2009

Romantic love is as important as your own need for it.

October 21, 2009

A sexual interest that’s mutually enjoyed by two partners, and harmful to neither, is a private matter.

October 20, 2009

Best-friend relationships need to adjust naturally when one finds a romantic partner.

October 19, 2009

Important messages can be gained from the issues that others face.

October 17, 2009

Repeated affairs ring a loud alarm that the couple needs counselling and change, not public discussion.

October 16, 2009

One person’s lack of sexual drive usually becomes a couple’s problem, if not addressed.

October 15, 2009

Knowing about a friend’s affair can end up risking the friendship itself.

October 14, 2009

A dating web site profile is just an introduction, not an application form.

October 13, 2009

Sometimes the honest-but-difficult approach is the only one that can work.

October 12, 2009

When sudden loss and fears of mortality create emotional blocks, get professional help.

October 10, 2009

Post-relationship contact isn’t for everyone.

October 9, 2009

An unhealthy relationship needs change or finality.

October 8, 2009

When a close relative has frequent bouts of anger, look for reasons rather than your own reaction.

October 7, 2009

Tip of the Day: When older children defy your safety concerns, you need authoritative reasons, or a change in the situation.

October 6, 2009

Extreme sibling rivalry should signal a need for professional help.

October 5, 2009

The best way to avoid getting burned, is to stay away from the (old) flame.

October 3, 2009

When sex “dwindles,” find more time for intimate contact.

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