Delaying marriage can be a symptom of unresolved issues: Time for the Talk.

Hiding herpes is both a health hazard and a deal-breaker.

If you mis-read a person’s intent, it’s a mistake to learn from, rather than wallow in it.

Erectile dysfunction calls for a medical check-up before looking for other causes.

When there are differing sexual standards, someone has to compromise or leave.

Dating relationships rarely last if one party clings to unrealistic expectations.

Each person’s recovery from addiction is a personal path, but when possible, re-gaining old friendships can be part of the reward.

When family disapproval prevails, the partner who won’t speak up will eventually give up.

When in-laws are used to help defray child-care costs, don’t be surprised at in-law interference.

Parental support for adult children is a gift, not an entitlement.

A beloved pet’s suffering requires professional care and guidance.

A relationship is one-sided when you’re hidden from the other person’s personal network.

When you avoid having The Talk for too long, silence becomes the roadblock in your relationship.

The newly separated need time for reflection BEFORE their next relationship, not after.

If the serious issues aren’t addressed, an ultimatum is only a threat not a solution.

When sex is the no-go barrier between you, look at the foundation.

A child’s paternity is a matter that only those directly involved need to discuss.

After an affair gone public, don’t expect warmth and ease with the ex-spouse left behind.

When you need him/her to move on, it’s up to you to make it happen.

Understand the causes of a partner’s sexual shyness to boost your true intimacy together.

When depression takes hold, all else can seem hopeless. Get help immediately and then tackle problems one at a time.

Alcoholism is an illness/addiction that affects the whole family.

Dating break-ups are rough on emotions … don’t be surprised at reactions.

Emotionally complicated parent-child relationships call for understanding and compassion … often more so by the parent.

Instead of just critiquing others’ lives, consider what suggestions or actions can be truly helpful.

When the small stuff is paramount, there’s something more missing.

When the cheating’s not over, the signs of “change” aren’t real.

A relationship needs to be developed, not “chosen” for instant gratification.

Make sure you address your real relationship problem, not a sidebar.

When the evidence shows you’re being unfairly used, end the relationship.

Mrs. or Ms. shouldn’t matter, unless you’re Mis-sing the real issue.

Parenthood means a whole new lifestyle for both of you and requires thoughtful adjustment.

Those who intentionally exclude the innocent children of your spouse should be avoided; they’re saboteurs.

The sibling who has the truly better life, can afford more generosity of spirit.

Sometimes it’s your own state of mind that makes a partner’s innocent “encounter” seem suspicious.

If your only enjoy the high life, you’re not ready for a real-world relationship.  

Separate family matters can sometimes cause irreparable conflicts.

The right “fit” is the partner who makes you feel good in ways that matter most.

When a parent’s hard to reach, show your interest.  

When money management is a divisive issue before marriage, expect bigger problems later.

Help a stop-smoking effort with encouragement, not nagging.

When repeated partners behave equally badly, change your own patterns.

A Mama’s Boy has to want to cut the “umbilical” cord himself, rather than have you do it.

When a love partner shows repeated nastiness, don’t expect his/her nature to change.

A one-night-stand is a loud alarm, but not necessarily a death knell.

With a Serial Cheater, get going instead of gathering evidence.

When a partner’s hiding the truth, you need your strength and self-confidence for both confrontation and presenting consequences.

When a relationship is interrupted, “waiting” without commitment is a gamble. Decide on greater commitment or staying apart.

After an affair, a relationship can best survive if both parties commit to understanding why it happened and work at re-building trust.

If you’re aware of a couple’s disintegrating marriage, including knowledge of one’s affair, get out of their way to handle it.