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Tip of the Day Archive

February 9, 2022

After a partner’s death, loneliness can become stifling. Get proactive to connect with friends/activities.

February 8, 2022

Concern about a spouse’s annual message to a long-ago ex indicates personal insecurity and suppressed marriage problems.

February 7, 2022

Parents should teach teenagers financial realities and state clear limits on adult children asking for “loans.”

February 5, 2022

Using an ultimatum to keep a difficult relationship going, only prolongs a very bad situation.

February 4, 2022

An employer who uses their past workplace affair to keep an employee from leaving, can face a formal workplace complaint.

February 3, 2022

Be alert and recognize red flags if you’re being rushed into an uncomfortably intense/controlling relationship.

February 2, 2022

The death of a beloved life partner is a passage. A later new relationship is a gift, not a replacement.

February 1, 2022

Don’t just listen to your inner voice, use it in relationships to maintain a healthy, positive self-image. Just in time for Valentine’s Day.

January 31, 2022

There’s a time in life when circumstances make it crucial to your own self-respect to speak up against shallow mockery of others and divisive racism.

January 29, 2022

Resolving marital difficulties requires a fresh look at what’s possible and needed by everyone involved.

January 28, 2022

If someone close ignores Covid restrictions, explain that every family needs to help lessen cases/hospitalizations. Also, try to understand their fears.

January 27, 2022

Uncontrolled alcohol use negatively affects everyone in a family. Well-researched books offer new, motivating insights toward sobriety.

January 26, 2022

Grief counselling/therapy can be helpful over time.

January 25, 2022

If your relationship history repeats similar/confusing patterns, recognize your own conflicts through the help of a therapist (available online).

January 24, 2022

An unwanted divorce still calls on the spouse who’s been left, to help their mutual children adjust to the new situation.

January 22, 2022

Figure out why you’re staying in an unhealthy relationship, then decide your next move.

January 21, 2022

Relationship problems affect whole lives.

January 20, 2022

Personal relationship issues deserve an honest effort, or meaningful change.

January 19, 2022

Some friendships don’t last the test of time.

January 18, 2022

Couples can easily remain a proudly-bonded team regarding their marriage, despite having separate last names.

January 17, 2022

Divorce sometimes replaces marriage with self-awareness, better choices, more realistic goals.

 

January 15, 2022

Define your relationship by the hallmarks of its constancy not by an occasional blip.

January 14, 2022

Some people become their elderly parent’s caregiver because no other relative would or could.

January 13, 2022

Close friends with differing personal situations should discuss ahead any potential conflicts over a group plan.

 

January 12, 2022

A spouse still connected to his ex of 30-years ago, might soon lose his current wife.

January 11, 2022

Banning a step-child from their family home challenges the couple’s pledge of “partnership.”

 

January 10, 2022

Support troubled friends through regular phone/online contact, caring, and suggested resources.

January 8, 2022

When divorce becomes inevitable, confront what led there. As you change, so can your future.

January 7, 2022

When there’s solid information on relationship topics, be open to learning, testing and expanding your comfort level with new possibilities.

January 6, 2022

It IS possible to overcome the pain and pessimism from negative past life experiences, by seeking, learning, and practicing purposeful optimism.

January 5, 2022

Partner abuse of any kind is frightening, no matter the gender or other people’s perceptions.

January 4, 2022

A partner’s alcoholism can become unbearable when used to alienate friends and family.

January 3, 2022

An ongoing nasty element within a family may push a newcomer away unless the couple cut contact with their rejectors.

January 1, 2022

Crushes during marriage are imagined escapes. But acting on them can destroy what you value most.

December 31, 2021

Start 2022 with the wisdom of what you’ve already learned, and the energy of a new beginning.

December 30, 2021

Questioning a husband’s sexual identity may reflect the wife’s own insecurity about why his lovemaking, though regular, lacks enough passion for her.

December 29, 2021

Many parent/adult child relationships are strained due to harsh beginnings. But the potential for change may be hiding in plain sight: Adult self-acceptance.

December 28, 2021

New Year’s resolutions can be a useful reflective tool to help you make changes to improve your relationships.

December 27, 2021

Save social media for trusted friends/family to connect.

December 25, 2021

Christmas is a good opportunity to introduce your potential partner to your family. But if either of you is hesitant, then not yet.

December 24, 2021

Adult wisdom is best measured by its growth, adaptability, and recognition/acceptance of new realities.

 

December 23, 2021

A mother’s distanced behaviour may reflect her past history and present mental-health issues.

December 22, 2021

Don’t let creepy men OR women objectify you based on sex. If someone doesn’t “get” who you are as a person, move on.

December 21, 2021

Relatives who purposefully fail their own adult children/ grandchildren, do so for selfish, mean-spirited reasons.

December 20, 2021

Try meeting potential dates “organically” by joining outdoor group activities you enjoy.

December 18, 2021

Never believe a stranger’s nasty comments about someone you love/trust.

December 17, 2021

The 2020 Divorce Rate in Canada: 40% of marriages end in divorce.

December 16, 2021

Never stay in a frightening/violent relationship. Make a safe plan to leave permanently.

December 15, 2021

A mother/woman’s goals of purpose and personal contribution, can boost a couple’s relationship, not diminish it.

December 14, 2021

Partners in life don’t have to feel or behave the same way… they just have to show mutual love and trust, to be a good match.

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