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Tip of the Day Archive

October 16, 2013

Young love can be intensely emotional; separation requires continued understanding and caring.

 

October 15, 2013

Past infidelity can be overcome, with openness, apology, and renewed trust.

October 14, 2013

There are many risks to relationships, but also many ways to avoid or resolve them.

October 12, 2013

Instead of being “Rescuer” to someone flirting with danger, connect him or her to professional supports.

October 11, 2013

When someone’s a potential danger to themselves or others, you have a moral duty to report this.

October 10, 2013

Marriage is meant to be more than just hanging in, but both spouses need to demonstrate this.

October 9, 2013

Bad social habits like chomping and slurping are physically/emotionally upsetting to noise-sufferers, besides being rude.

October 8, 2013

Be honest with yourself about why you want “friendship” with a cheat partner.

October 7, 2013

Don’t waste your energy on snooping for “proof” when you already know something’s wrong.

October 5, 2013

Lovers have to have their secrets and also be included sometimes with each other’s close friends.

October 4, 2013

What happens at home should stay at home, not be gossip fuel.

October 3, 2013

Hold back judgments on the newly separated as they settle through a difficult time.

October 2, 2013

Children of divorced parents who date, only need to know when there’s a growing relationship with someone new.

October 1, 2013

When a marital mess threatens your child’s emotional health, take positive action with the child as priority.

September 30, 2013

When there’s no communication, no sex, it’s time for your own firm decisions.

 

September 28, 2013

A relative’s unusual “disappearance” must be relentlessly pursued.

 

September 27, 2013

When a partner gets stuck in dependency, call a deadline on making changes.

September 26, 2013

Don’t waste the happy times in family life with negative reactions to relative’s choices.

September 25, 2013

“Easy” money often involves hard realities.

September 24, 2013

Just say NO to sex with someone who’s only using you.

 

September 23, 2013

Naked photos between lovers, not sent online, are the only ones that don’t scream DELETE. 

September 21, 2013

Don’t turn another’s pressures into your drama; just show your understanding.

September 20, 2013

When leaving a needy partner, limit the potential hurt/devastation with outside supports. 

 

September 19, 2013

A soap-opera relationship’s unlikely to produce a healthy future.

September 18, 2013

When you rely on grandparents as full-time babysitters, don’t expect them to not be in your lives otherwise.

September 17, 2013

Battling addiction is a personal struggle for survival.

September 16, 2013

Help children accept different lifestyle choices in their own family, without fear or hostility.

September 14, 2013

Parents’ divorce is unsettling to adult children, but doesn’t negate past harmony.

September 13, 2013

A relationship’s end is an opportunity for self-reflection, confidence-boosting, and personal growth.

September 12, 2013

Knowing It’s Over should come after making an effort, weighing options, and without delaying from fear.

September 11, 2013

A spouse’s obsession with your past relationships, or an ex, is a cry for understanding and reassurance.

 

September 10, 2013

If constantly discussing doubts and distancing, it’s not a healthy relationship. 

September 9, 2013

Friendships are often smoother than family relationships like siblings, due to limits and separateness.

 

September 7, 2013

Co-dependents hold each other back; no one truly benefits.

 

September 6, 2013

Be open with adult daughter about conflicts over her sexual activity. 

September 5, 2013

Parents: Wedding rifts can curtail a relationship with your offspring, and future grandkids.

September 4, 2013

Love me, love my pets, should be the beginning of a discussion, not a too-late conflict.

September 3, 2013

Hitting on the “Hottie” in the gym is more “groupie” behaviour than genuinely attracting the other person.

September 2, 2013

Dating someone too-recently separated usually leads to sharing his or her baggage load. 

August 31, 2013

Saved love letters and mementoes from the past rightfully belong to the person who sent them, once the recipient passes on.

August 30, 2013

Wedding guests should base their gift on what they can truly afford.

August 29, 2013

In a marriage, scorecards don’t matter nearly as much as how you balance out your differences with compromises and solutions.

August 28, 2013

Hook-up culture isn’t for everyone, so be clear with yourself and others what you can accept in a sexual connection.

August 27, 2013

When an adult child has a worrisome sexual relationship, discussions and action must be carefully thought out.

August 26, 2013

When a young friend’s “suicidal,” report it to people who know what to do.

August 24, 2013

To keep a regretted affair in the past, leave the “other person” there, too.

August 23, 2013

Stop supporting a “user,” and their pretense of interest in you ends abruptly.

August 22, 2013

Always stand up against abuse, even if the offender was/is a friend. 

August 21, 2013

Teens are ready to date, if able to set their own limits. 

August 20, 2013

If you view your spouse as an opponent in power struggles, the divide only increases.

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