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November 29, 2014

Knowing that a person may be unwittingly in danger of an assault imposes a moral duty to warn them.

 

November 28, 2014

If you accept less than you want, you’ll get just that.

November 27, 2014

When you’re brought in as an extra, you’re not being considered for the lead role.

November 26, 2014

Moving on means taking steps to not dwell in the past.

November 25, 2014

Don’t focus on small stuff when the bigger picture’s solid.

November 24, 2014

Breaking the girlfriend code about dating an ex risks the friendship.

November 22, 2014

Working as a team instead of as adversaries, to resolve major problems, changes a couple’s dynamic.

November 21, 2014

When parents deal in lies, distrust, and retaliation, everyone suffers.

November 20, 2014

Waiting for someone’s other relationship to fail means living in limbo and pain.

November 19, 2014

A couple in love can only withstand parental obstruction for so long before the relationship suffers.

 

November 18, 2014

Don’t accept excuses for repeated drunkenness and cheating.

 

November 17, 2014

Tell someone your feelings for them after you’ve found some common ground as friends.

November 15, 2014

Recognize that a “ taker” will never change, neither for a partner nor friend.

November 14, 2014

When you know that a relationship’s stagnating, it’s been that way too long.

November 13, 2014

Be clear about your inner feelings, not just anger, when expressing relationship concerns.

November 12, 2014

Depression makes decisions about moving difficult, but having mutual love trumps many other choices.

November 11, 2014

Relying on a long-time liar and cheater remains risky.

November 10, 2014

Couples can only handle family resistance when they’re both confident of  their right to the relationship.

 

November 8, 2014

Don’t let past ghosts shadow a healthy relationship.

November 7, 2014

Looking to escape a relationship problem, puts one in the Cheating Zone.

November 6, 2014

The Cheating Zone is the place people enter when they decide they’re entitled to seek excitement and attention away from their partner.

November 5, 2014

If you love someone, say so, rather than just listen to their problems with someone else.

November 4, 2014

When a negative relationship pattern persists, counselling can help change it.

November 3, 2014

Counselling is crucial to helping someone handle the hurt and self-esteem blow of having been abandoned by a parent.

November 1, 2014

Professional counselling boosts self-understanding, which is necessary for making crucial relationship decisions.

October 31, 2014

When family tensions are high, back off criticism, or alert police to threats.

October 30, 2014

Ease each other’s transition from singlehood to married life, through compromise instead of criticism.

October 29, 2014

Make sure you don’t just look to someone else to rescue you from a lost relationship.

October 28, 2014

Examining your own part in a break-up can help you learn how to achieve greater happiness in your next relationship.

October 27, 2014

Time, and taking care of yourself physically and emotionally, ultimately heal break-up wounds.

 

October 25, 2014

You can’t know whether Mom’s boyfriend treats her decently without meeting him.

October 24, 2014

Reasonable distrust doesn’t go away unless the reason no longer exists.

October 23, 2014

Enabling a friend to wallow in denial about a break-up isn’t healthy support.

October 22, 2014

Plan your wedding as the positive beginning it’s meant to symbolize.

October 21, 2014

When there’s a serious health factor affecting the relationship, get fully informed and realistic about dealing with it.

October 20, 2014

In an acrimonious divorce, involving the other side’s family can create more problems.

 

October 18, 2014

Personal counselling can help you face a major decision from inner strength.

October 17, 2014

When there’s no “progress” in your relationship, change depends on you.

October 16, 2014

Relationships can get stalled when both parties refuse to compromise and adapt to each other’s needs.

October 15, 2014

When a relationship ends, don’t pursue it as a friendship until emotions have long settled.

October 14, 2014

Abused women in our own communities need access and help to find safety.

October 13, 2014

Cell-phone addiction negatively affects interpersonal connections through neglect and rudeness.

October 11, 2014

Love rarely survives long-term in the midst of ongoing complicated and competing relationships.

October 10, 2014

When an organized neat-nik and committed slob join forces, lots of love, compromise, and creativity’s needed.

October 9, 2014

Marriages can renew only if both parties work at re-building trust and understanding.

October 8, 2014

A physically abusive ex-boyfriend should have legally defined and monitored visits with the baby he didn’t want.

October 7, 2014

If a spouse’s cheating makes you want to “escape,” take a break to think it through with professional and legal guidance.

October 6, 2014

Secrets and lies erode relationships. Speak up early about anything that can be interpreted as a deceit.

October 4, 2014

Get couples’ counselling if a negative view of marriage is causing doubts and delays.

October 3, 2014

Seeking counselling about your contribution to a marriage’s failure may win you a second chance.

 

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