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Tip of the Day Archive

October 31, 2016

Despite the ideal, parents don’t “owe” children equally in their will, especially if one child has greater needs.

October 29, 2016

Make sure you’re not busying your life to avoid confronting the state of your relationship.

October 28, 2016

When a “favour” becomes an uncomfortable habit, speak up early and gently.

October 27, 2016

When living with a difficult partner, seek your own support to manage or leave.

October 26, 2016

Different backgrounds lead to conflicts if a couple doesn’t set boundaries for critical family members.

 

 

October 25, 2016

A new marriage deserves a happy honeymoon period before tackling negative in-laws.

 

October 24, 2016

Differing libidos is an issue you need to work around, if you want to stay together.

October 22, 2016

Infatuation is only the dream of being in love, not the experience of it.

October 21, 2016

When a partner’s secretive, don’t accept a transfer of blame; he/she is the one creating your doubts.

October 20, 2016

Ranting about what’s wrong in your relationship gets you nowhere. But true knowledge and counselling can benefit your whole life.

October 19, 2016

Take young dating relationships seriously enough to know your own boundaries and be clear about them.

October 18, 2016

Don’t let a stranger’s rude remarks affect your own self-image and confidence.

October 17, 2016

Waiting for someone to be “ready” for a relationship means accepting being put on hold.

October 15, 2016

The choice of sexual partner is more open for some, more confusing for others. Be true to yourself.

October 14, 2016

Hurts, anger, disappointments precede divorce battles over money.

October 13, 2016

When a partner withholds saying “love,” be wary of disappointment ahead.

October 12, 2016

The stepmother role is a responsibility that calls for understanding, not just reactions.

October 11, 2016

Sometimes it’s the relationship that’s having a mid-life crisis and needs direct attention.

October 10, 2016

Recognize your own roadblocks to finding new love.

October 8, 2016

Despite paternity issues, welcome a baby into a calm, happy environment.

October 7, 2016

If you worry most about others’ opinions of the relationship, you’re with the wrong person.

October 6, 2016

Pain during sex calls for seeing a doctor to determine the cause. Period.

October 5, 2016

An unhealthy relationship won’t change without both partners being willing and learning how.

October 4, 2016

The way to avoid discriminating is to recognize when it’s part of your thinking.

October 3, 2016

When even the possibility of dating someone is blocked, it’s the dream of love that hangs on in the imagination.

October 1, 2016

Support adult daughter’s brave choice along with her counselling.

 

September 30, 2016

Don’t count on a newly separated lover who’s uncertain what he’ll want in future.

September 29, 2016

A couple’s sexual “solution” through an outside lover, introduces many complications.

September 28, 2016

This old adage still applies in expressing feelings: “Nothing ventured, nothing gained.”

 

September 27, 2016

Try a gentle shift of habits to keep a platonic work relationship while helping a new boyfriend get comfortable with it.

September 26, 2016

When an in-law relationship is toxic, look for love and support from other relatives/friends, and also model it to your children.

September 24, 2016

Any new “addiction” affects a relationship, but more so if there are already delays in commitment.

September 23, 2016

When lies end trust, a partner can’t just look the other way.

September 22, 2016

It’s not a “relationship” if you’re being kept in third place.

September 21, 2016

“Deal-breaker” topics like dog ownership, should be heard from both sides, with counselling help if needed.

September 20, 2016

Don’t over-worry a relationship based on anxieties you build when nothing’s going wrong. Be positive instead.

September 19, 2016

Parents of a highly-reactive child can gain knowledge and confidence from reading and talking to “experts” in this field.

 

September 17, 2016

Reacting to stress in old, separate ways puts a relationship at risk.

September 16, 2016

Long-distance beau backs off without explanation? Move on.

September 15, 2016

Marrying someone you “settle” for can end up making you lonely and unhappy for years.

September 14, 2016

The question, “how did I get myself into (this relationship)” is a sure step to ending it, so proceed gently and respectfully.

September 13, 2016

When close friends feud, stay neutral unless one or both ask for help re-connecting.

September 12, 2016

Encourage a friend to look realistically at why their relationship is going nowhere.

September 10, 2016

When someone’s making you feel bad about yourself and your life, ask, what’s to love here?

September 9, 2016

Develop ways for a positive approach to your life and relationships, after a marriage breakup.

September 8, 2016

The loss of love and a marriage are harsh changes that some people find impossible to accept.

September 7, 2016

An online relationship needs to re-start in person, getting acquainted with patience and tolerance.

September 6, 2016

End a disturbing, manipulative relationship immediately; talk to a counsellor and strongly consider involving police, to save others.

September 5, 2016

A ring isn’t just “jewellery” if it signifies something hurtful to your partner.

September 3, 2016

Long-distance relationships require frequent contact and visits, or take a break till back together.

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