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Tip of the Day Archive

November 9, 2011

Never stop trying to re-connect with your children, but don't link this to your support obligations unless through the court system.

 

November 8, 2011

When the ME-Factor determines all your behaviour, long-term relationships don't stand a chance.

 

November 7, 2011

When a partner doesn't care about what's NOT acceptable, the union won't last.

 

November 5, 2011

For an MIL, wisdom trumps personal sensitivity.

 

 

November 4, 2011

When advising friends, bring a positive approach rather than disapproval.

 

November 3, 2011

Toxic family dynamics are the sole responsibility of the people who fuel them.

 

 

November 2, 2011

Weighing your relationship options too long is an unfair stall.

 

 

 

November 1, 2011

Do NOT give in to pressure for sex if it's not what YOU want.

 

October 31, 2011

Have a Happy Halloween that keeps your children and others safe, as well as playful.

 

October 29, 2011

A relationship develops from an emotional draw, not just choosing between candidates.

 

October 28, 2011

Moving in together requires some discussion ahead of how to make it work.

 

October 27, 2011

The reality of an affair, no matter how wonderful, is that it risks hurting others you care about.

 

October 26, 2011

It's basic Relationship Rules – Your "schedule" has to make time for the other person, too.

 

 

October 25, 2011

Gut instinct can be about your own hang-ups, more than about another's behaviour.

 

October 24, 2011

Work consciously at staying connected, if you want the relationship to survive.

 

October 22, 2011

Opposing an adult child's choice of partner is often a losing strategy.

 

October 21, 2011

A break needs to be long enough to know what you miss, and don't miss.

 

October 20, 2011

Deceit's a double-edged sword.

 

October 19, 2011

An apology and the end of inappropriate contacts are strong signals to renew trust.

 

October 18, 2011

Speak up for your own standards and choices, despite others' criticisms.

 

October 17, 2011

It's disrespectful to your partner to elevate a colleague to the same level of closeness.

 

October 15, 2011

Families can move on from divorce but children need special help with it.

 

October 14, 2011

Divorce only ends the marriage, not the family connection, nor your personal issues.

 

October 13, 2011

Dog-owners, who are guests, need to protect not only their pets, but also any children around them.

 

 

October 12, 2011

Post-affair counseling is usually required for both spouses to learn how to re-build the marriage.

 

October 11, 2011

Young people need encouragement and healthy role models to make good choices for themselves.

 

 

October 10, 2011

Any sizeable gathering (weddings) including relatives and alcohol, can encounter "incidents." Think ahead.

 

October 8, 2011

In early relationships, don't overreact on reasonable friendships with ex'es.

 

October 7, 2011

When family connections are repeatedly destructive, sever them.

 

October 6, 2011

"Slut-Dressing" may attract attention, but it's NEVER an excuse for violence.

 

October 5, 2011

A new baby can often provide the opportunity for adult children and their parents to re-connect in a healthier relationship than in their past.

 

October 4, 2011

Warn someone close about the consequences of keeping explosive secrets.

 

October 3, 2011

A bride and groom have the right to include their parents at all celebrations, no matter past issues.

 

October 1, 2011

Couples need to talk about regular mood changes, including PMS, with each other and a doctor.

 

September 28, 2011

Leaving an abusive relationship signals crucial self-protection.

 

September 27, 2011

When torn between two loves, you may not be ready to permanently choose either.

 

September 26, 2011

Probing family secrets requires careful handling.

 

September 24, 2011

When one parent rules the family schedule without consultation, the other parent may distance emotionally.

 

September 23, 2011

Children need thoughtful, caring help adjusting to "new" family life.

 

September 22, 2011

Fantasies are common and normal so long as you don't obsess about them, nor force them on others. 

 

September 21, 2011

Rise above past hostilities with your ex to celebrate your child's wedding.

 

September 20, 2011

When there's a cycle of distancing and distrust, re-examine why you're together.

 

September 19, 2011

Intervene in bullying, before it gathers dangerous momentum.

 

September 17, 2011

Know that lending money to friends/family may risk friendship and the money.

 

September 16, 2011

Handling difficult in-law relationships takes maturity on both sides, and a united front from the younger couple.

 

September 15, 2011

In-laws are family, unless they're ruining your family.

 

September 14, 2011

Stay out of the middle of others' relationships.

 

 

September 13, 2011

Both sides of a couple's families have to be considered for harmony among in-laws, whenever possible.

 

September 12, 2011

Bad-mouthing a sibling's spouse can come back to bite you.

 

September 10, 2011

When a relationship stalemates, you have to speak up for what you want.

 

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