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		<title>Masking insecurity by partying too hard usually backfires</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Feb 2026 05:00:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<title>Everyone is allowed to like what they like</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 20 Dec 2025 05:00:36 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<title>MANY people want intimacy as part of their marriage</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Dec 2025 05:00:28 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[affection]]></category>
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		<title>Better to work on your marriage than focus on your affair</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 08 Oct 2025 04:00:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<title>Tea bags are meant for hot water</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 30 Aug 2025 04:00:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[birth control]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[morning after]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[role play]]></category>
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		<title>It&#8217;s not always the right time for sexual intimacy</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 16 Aug 2025 04:00:10 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<title>Seek the advice of a nutritionist and dietician to better understand food</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Jul 2025 04:00:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<title>Support is best accepted on THEIR terms, not yours</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 19 Jul 2025 04:00:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<title>Most parents do the best they can &#8211; even if you don&#8217;t like it!</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Jul 2025 04:00:33 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<title>We ALL need to recharge or we&#8217;d burn out</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Jul 2025 04:00:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[attitude]]></category>
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