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		<title>Reaching out to an old flame could fizzle or explode</title>
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		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/reaching-out-to-an-old-flame-could-fizzle-or-explode/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Oct 2026 04:00:14 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[AI]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[brain fog]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[breakups]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[ChatGPT]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Cheating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[cottage issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[cranky]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[depression]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[disrespectful]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Divorce]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[expectations]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[feelings]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[hormonal imbalance]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[menopause]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[parenting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[patience]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[patterns]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[perimenopause]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[sleep deprivation]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[spousal support]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[tenacity]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[toxic]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[unkind]]></category>
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		<title>Emotional abuse is unacceptable &#8211; at EVERY age</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Oct 2026 04:00:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[abuse]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[anger]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[assisted living]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[breast cancer]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[dementia]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[diabetes]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Divorce]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Health Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[human rights]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[marriage counselor]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[tension]]></category>
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		<title>Hate is a strong word. Make sure you really mean it before throwing it around</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 09 Oct 2026 04:00:11 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[abandonment]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Addictions]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Affairs]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[balance]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[closure]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[condescending]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[distraction]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Drugs]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[fired]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[rehab]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[rejection]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[rude]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[therapy]]></category>
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		<title>When families disintegrate, there&#8217;s no right way or time</title>
		<link>https://ellieadvice.com/when-families-disintegrate-theres-no-right-way-or-time/</link>
		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/when-families-disintegrate-theres-no-right-way-or-time/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Oct 2026 04:00:55 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Addictions]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[attraction]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[bragging]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[charade]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Cheating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[comfort]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Covid-19]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[denial]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Drugs]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[enabler]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[family]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Friendship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[holidays]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Marriage]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[mental health issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[mock]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Money Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[routine]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[safety]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Separated]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Teenagers]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[tough love]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[travel]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[truth]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Unhealthy Relationships]]></category>

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		<title>Friends need each other &#8211; no matter where they live</title>
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		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/friends-need-each-other-no-matter-where-they-live/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 29 Sep 2026 04:00:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Column]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[ADHD]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[anti-social]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[behavioural issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[boredom]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[dismissed]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Divorce]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[entitlement]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[estrangement]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Friendship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[happiness]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[importance]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[integrity]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[investment]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[language]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[marriage counselor]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[neurodiverse]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[parenting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[pets]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[reputation]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[rude]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[self-righteous]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[siblings]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[struggle]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[support]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[ungrateful]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[unhappiness]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Unhealthy Relationships]]></category>

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		<title>People will only make change when they are ready</title>
		<link>https://ellieadvice.com/people-will-only-make-change-when-they-are-ready/</link>
		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/people-will-only-make-change-when-they-are-ready/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 21 Sep 2026 04:00:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Column]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Alzheimers]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[behaviour]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Cheating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[confidante]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[confidence]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Divorce]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[family]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[fears]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Friendship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[grief]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[long-term care]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[parenting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[promise]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[respect]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[seniors]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[siblings]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[strength]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[struggle]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[support]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[tragedy]]></category>
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		<title>Showing up is proof that you care</title>
		<link>https://ellieadvice.com/showing-up-is-proof-that-you-care/</link>
		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/showing-up-is-proof-that-you-care/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Sep 2026 04:00:33 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[alcohol abuse]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[cancer]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[false accusations]]></category>
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		<title>Cheaters cheat, for a multitude of reasons!</title>
		<link>https://ellieadvice.com/cheaters-cheat-for-a-multitude-of-reasons/</link>
		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/cheaters-cheat-for-a-multitude-of-reasons/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 04 Sep 2026 04:00:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Column]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[advice]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[beauty]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Cheating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[cold]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Commitment]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[complaining]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[consequences]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[curt]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Divorce]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[family]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Fighting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Friendship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[honesty]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[immature]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[lessons]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[peace]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[puberty]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[siblings]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Snooping]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[therapy]]></category>
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		<title>People need to feel safe living their truths</title>
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		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/people-need-to-feel-safe-living-their-truths/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 29 Aug 2026 04:00:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Column]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[anxiety]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[breakups]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Cheating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[couples' therapy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[dignity]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[empathy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[facial hair]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Fighting]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[gay]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[worry]]></category>
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		<title>Siblings fight; it&#8217;s up to the parents to teach them resolution</title>
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		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/siblings-fight-its-up-to-the-parents-to-teach-them-resolution/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 12 Aug 2026 04:00:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<category><![CDATA[Affairs]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[annoy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[behaviour]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[confrontation]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[cycle]]></category>
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