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		<title>Make decisions based on what&#8217;s in front of you, not ghosts</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Feb 2026 05:00:30 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Addictions]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[car accident]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[exes]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[exposure]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[ghosts]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[hockey]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[innocence]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[intimacy]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[loss of a loved one]]></category>
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		<title>Merry Christmas!</title>
		<link>https://ellieadvice.com/merry-christmas-5/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Dec 2025 05:00:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Column]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[anxiety]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[avoidance]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Christmas]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[community]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[depression]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[devastating]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[lonely]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[meltdown]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[overwhelm]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[parental loss]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[proposal]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[sacrifice]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[shock]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[siblings]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[sympathy]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[tragedy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[traumatic loss]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[triggers]]></category>

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		<title>Insecurity sometimes comes across as bitchiness</title>
		<link>https://ellieadvice.com/insecurity-sometimes-comes-across-as-bitchiness/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 26 Nov 2025 05:00:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Column]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[attention]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[event]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[family]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Friendship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[grief]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Health Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[insecurities]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[life stages]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Marriage]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[maturity]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[mean girls]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[offensive]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Romance]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[shy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Teenagers]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[tragedy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[widow]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[widowed]]></category>

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		<title>Don&#8217;t blame the full moon</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 22 Sep 2025 04:00:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[abuse]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[myth]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[return-to-office]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[sensory overload]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[siblings]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[sleep deprivation]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[tragedy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[work-from-home]]></category>
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		<title>Menopause symptoms hit everyone differently; there&#8217;s no need to suffer</title>
		<link>https://ellieadvice.com/menopause-symptoms-hit-everyone-differently-theres-no-need-to-suffer/</link>
		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/menopause-symptoms-hit-everyone-differently-theres-no-need-to-suffer/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Sep 2025 04:00:11 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Column]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[accident]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[anhedonia]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[depression]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[disappointment]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[enemies]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[estrogen]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[executive functioning]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[family]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[fantasy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[feedback]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[menopause]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[nauseous]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[night sweats]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[overprotective]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[parenting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[personality]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[quality of life]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[rude]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[satisfaction]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[self-deprecating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[siblings]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[side effects]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[sleep issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[symptoms]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[time management]]></category>
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		<title>Relationships are about BOTH people</title>
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		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/relationships-are-about-both-people/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Aug 2025 04:00:12 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Column]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[accident]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[adoption]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Cheating]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[fault]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[gossip]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[grandparenting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[holidays]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[incest]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Loss]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[postpartum depression]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[survivors' guilt]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[tension]]></category>
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		<title>Planning ahead removes stress</title>
		<link>https://ellieadvice.com/planning-ahead-removes-stress/</link>
		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/planning-ahead-removes-stress/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Jul 2025 04:00:12 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Column]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Addictions]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Death]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[depression]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[escape]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[family]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Friendship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Loss]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[priorities]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[socialize]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[summer]]></category>
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		<title>Pay attention to your loved ones so they don&#8217;t fall off the edge</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Jun 2025 04:00:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[anxiety]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[borderline personality disorder]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[child support]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[cold]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[custody]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[depression]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[dismissive]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[family]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[fight or flight]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Friendship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[grandparent alienation]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[In-laws]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Marriage]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[memory]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[mental health issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[parenting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[pressure]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[siblings]]></category>
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		<title>Good friends can talk about anything</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 13 May 2025 04:00:56 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[autism]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Death]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[eavesdrop]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[family]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[pressure]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[promotion]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Suicide]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[transition]]></category>
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		<title>Getting dumped never feels good</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 04 Apr 2025 04:00:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[afterglow]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[breakups]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[closure]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Commitment]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Death]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[distraction]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dumped]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Friendship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[grief counselling]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[heartbreak]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[horny]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Sex]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[single parenting]]></category>
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