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		<title>Adult siblings often need to rework their relationships</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Mar 2026 04:00:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<category><![CDATA[bossy]]></category>
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		<title>Mind your own business. It&#8217;s good practice</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 25 Aug 2025 04:00:52 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[babies]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[cottage life]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[curiosity]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[denial]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[financial responsibility]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[misinterpretation]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[summer]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[tension]]></category>
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		<title>Relationships are about BOTH people</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Aug 2025 04:00:12 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[accident]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[adoption]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Affairs]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Cheating]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[depression]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[fault]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Fighting]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[gossip]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[grandparenting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[holidays]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[incest]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Loss]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[newborns]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[parenting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[postpartum depression]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[renovations]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[secrets]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[siblings]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[survivors' guilt]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Teenagers]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[tension]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[tragedy]]></category>
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		<title>Sibling fights can last; do your best to stay close</title>
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		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/sibling-fights-can-last-do-your-best-to-stay-close/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 26 Jul 2025 04:00:01 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[apology]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[character assassination]]></category>
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		<title>Love people where they&#8217;re at&#8230;&#8230;</title>
		<link>https://ellieadvice.com/love-people-where-theyre-at/</link>
		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/love-people-where-theyre-at/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 04 Jul 2025 04:00:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[ageing]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[annoyed]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[anticlimactic]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[chemistry]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[cognitive decline]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[family]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Fighting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[flatulence]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[forgiveness]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[laughter]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[mental health issues]]></category>
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		<title>Ignore the rude &#8220;whispers&#8221;</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Dec 2024 05:00:11 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Age gap]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[control]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[flattery]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[mean girls]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[tension]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[travel]]></category>
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		<title>Learning how to work with others is constant compromise</title>
		<link>https://ellieadvice.com/learning-how-to-work-with-others-is-constant-compromise/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Aug 2024 04:00:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[ADHD]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[affection]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[PDA]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[public display of affection]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[tension]]></category>
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		<title>Fear of Change</title>
		<link>https://ellieadvice.com/fear-of-change/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 10 Aug 2024 04:00:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[accusations]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[breakups]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[change]]></category>
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		<title>Navigating teenagers is a wild ride</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Feb 2024 05:00:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[age differences]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[balance]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[boundaries]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[confrontation]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[consequences]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[distress]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[family]]></category>
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		<title>Getting to know someone is a back-and-forth conversation, not a one-sided tell-all</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Feb 2024 05:00:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[anxiety]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[attraction]]></category>
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