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		<title>People behave strangely sometimes&#8230;.</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Apr 2026 04:00:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[abuse]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Friendship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[hair loss]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[hormonal imbalance]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[hot flashes]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[kindness]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[massage]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[menopause]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[misinterpretation]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Money Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[perimenopause]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[positivity]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[suffering]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[supplements]]></category>
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		<title>Ignore the noise and focus on what&#8217;s important</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Apr 2026 04:00:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Affairs]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[appearance]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[appreciation]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[awkward]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[comfort]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[companionship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[complications]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[disposable income]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Divorce]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[eating disorders]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[family vacations]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[fears]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[financial status]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[gift giving]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Health Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[holidays]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[hope]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[intimacy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[luxury]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Marriage]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Money Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[obsession]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[ostentatious]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[parenting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[peace]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[perspective]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[recovery]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Romance]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[senior]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Sex]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[suffering]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[weight issues]]></category>
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		<title>There is a strong connection between mind and body</title>
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		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/there-is-a-strong-connection-between-mind-and-body/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Mar 2026 04:00:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Column]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[anger]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[behaviour]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[cancer]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[curfew]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Deal Breakers]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Death]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[disappointment]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Eastern medicine]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[exhaustion]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[family]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[grief]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[guilt]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Health Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[leave of absence]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[loss of a loved one]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[mental health issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[parenting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[prophylactic]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Sex]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[sleep disorder]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[sleep habits]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[sleep issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[stay-at-home-mom]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[suffering]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[symptoms]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Teenagers]]></category>
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		<title>Excuses, excuses &#8211; after awhile, they don&#8217;t hold their weight</title>
		<link>https://ellieadvice.com/excuses-excuses-after-awhile-they-dont-hold-their-weight/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Mar 2026 04:00:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[abandonment]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[babies]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[climate change]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[cruelty]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[headache]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[overwhelm]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[pain]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[pregnancy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[rejection]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[renovations]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[shame]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[siblings]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[suffering]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[support]]></category>
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		<title>In times of crises, family ralies and puts differences aside</title>
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		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/in-times-of-crises-family-ralies-and-puts-differences-aside/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 04 Mar 2026 05:00:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[car accident]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[conflict]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[confrontation]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[family]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[family support]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[fear]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Fighting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Friendship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[indiscretion]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Marriage]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[midwife]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[parenting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[pregnant]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[secrets]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[siblings]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[trust]]></category>

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		<title>Family doesn&#8217;t equal friendship</title>
		<link>https://ellieadvice.com/family-doesnt-equal-friendship/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Jan 2026 05:00:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Column]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[abuse]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[cruel]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[emotional abuse]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[family]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[grandparenting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[guilty]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Health Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[mental health issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[parental abuse]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[peace]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[resource]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[self-protection]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[siblings]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[suffering]]></category>
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		<title>No one should take prescription drugs that aren&#8217;t prescribed to them</title>
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		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/no-one-should-take-prescription-drugs-that-arent-prescribed-to-them/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Oct 2025 04:00:15 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Addictions]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Bullying]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Drugs]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[family]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[fasting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[financial stress]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Friendship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[gas]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[generational wealth]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[generosity]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[grandparenting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[headache]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Health Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[life lessons]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[migraines]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[religion]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[shame]]></category>
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		<title>It&#8217;s naive to think love conquers all, but it can build bridges</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 09 Oct 2025 04:00:55 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[conception&pregnancy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[conversion]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Covid-19]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[culture]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[dignity]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[family]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[ghosts]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Grieving]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[happiness]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Health Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[lonely]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[MAID]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[palliative]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[parenting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[peace]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[religion]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[retirement]]></category>
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		<title>Best friends are friends 24/7, not sometimes</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Oct 2025 04:00:53 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[abuse]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Covid-19]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Divorce]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[estrangement]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Friendship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[generational pain]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[ghosting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[grandparenting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Health Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[judgement]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[MAID]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[mean girls]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[parenting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[siblings]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[sleepovers]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[suffering]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[tolerance]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[validation]]></category>

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		<title>Renovations can take much longer than promised</title>
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		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/renovations-can-take-much-longer-than-promised/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Aug 2025 04:00:12 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Column]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[allergies]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[apology]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[cottage issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[emotional attachment]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[exclusion]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[family]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Friendship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[grateful]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[insurance]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Marriage]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[mental health issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[mistakes]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Money Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[regrets]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[remorse]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[renovations]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[schedule]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[seasonal allergies]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[siblings]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[suffering]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[symptoms]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Teenagers]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[timeline]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[triggers]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[untrustworthy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[wills]]></category>

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