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		<title>Helpful neighbours are wonderful until it becomes too familiar</title>
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		<title>Do everything you can so you know you&#8217;ve done your best</title>
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		<title>Friends need each other &#8211; no matter where they live</title>
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		<title>People will only make change when they are ready</title>
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		<title>Get to the root</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Jan 2025 05:00:11 +0000</pubDate>
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