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		<title>Prioritize and a bigger plate&#8230;..</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Apr 2025 04:00:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>When someone gives you a gift, it&#8217;s yours to do with as you please</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Mar 2025 04:00:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Party&#8217;s over! Back to reality&#8230;.</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Jan 2025 05:00:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Neurodiversity presents in many different ways</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 10 Jan 2025 05:00:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>We all want the best for our children</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Oct 2024 04:00:39 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[abuse]]></category>
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		<title>Multi-generational living can be beneficial to everyone</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Apr 2024 04:00:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<title>Teen awkwardness is mainly normal</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Jan 2024 05:00:36 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<title>Separate issues and prioritize</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Aug 2023 04:00:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Don&#8217;t be ashamed of what you enjoy doing</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 26 Apr 2023 04:00:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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