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		<title>Those who overshare are often insecure</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Feb 2026 05:00:05 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<title>Alcohol abuse can have seriously negative effects on the drinker AND their family</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Dec 2025 05:00:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[abuse]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[triggers]]></category>
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		<title>Insecurity sometimes comes across as bitchiness</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 26 Nov 2025 05:00:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[attention]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[event]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[mean girls]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[offensive]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Romance]]></category>
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		<title>You&#8217;ll have better success if you work together as a team</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 24 Nov 2025 05:00:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<title>Do NOT try to have an affair with ANYONE&#8217;s husband</title>
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		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/do-not-try-to-have-an-affair-with-anyones-husband/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 18 Oct 2025 04:00:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[affection]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Age gap]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[aggressive]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[body hair]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Cheating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Crushes]]></category>
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		<title>Single sex schools have pros and cons</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Sep 2025 04:00:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[benefit of the doubt]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[disappointment]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[diversity]]></category>
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		<title>Searching for a Mystery Man can be tricky</title>
		<link>https://ellieadvice.com/searching-for-a-mystery-man-can-be-tricky/</link>
		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/searching-for-a-mystery-man-can-be-tricky/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 14 May 2025 04:00:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Deal Breakers]]></category>
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		<title>April Fools&#8217; pranks are only funny if no one gets hurt &#8211; physically or emotionally</title>
		<link>https://ellieadvice.com/april-fools-pranks-are-only-funny-if-no-one-gets-hurt-physically-or-emotionally/</link>
		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/april-fools-pranks-are-only-funny-if-no-one-gets-hurt-physically-or-emotionally/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Apr 2025 04:00:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<title>When relationships end, you don&#8217;t owe each other anything but respect</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 04 Mar 2025 05:00:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<title>Parents are allowed to worry&#8230;.. but don&#8217;t project</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 06 Nov 2024 05:00:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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