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		<title>Relationships can run their course</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Feb 2026 05:00:22 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<title>Masking insecurity by partying too hard usually backfires</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Feb 2026 05:00:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>There&#8217;s more to life&#8230;&#8230;</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 17 Jan 2026 05:00:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[age differences]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[boredom]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[drunk]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[fears]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[settle]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[shock]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[TV]]></category>

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		<title>Sometimes it&#8217;s just not worth the fight</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Jan 2026 05:00:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[ADHD]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Death]]></category>
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		<title>Think positive: The end is always the beginning of something else.</title>
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		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/think-positive-the-end-is-always-the-beginning-of-something-else/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 31 Dec 2025 05:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Column]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Affairs]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[annoyed]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[disrespectful]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Divorce]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[family]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Friendship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[gender]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[holidays]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[karma]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[lawyer]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Lying]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Marriage]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Money Issues]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[shock]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[stress]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[tolerate]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[yoga]]></category>

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		<title>Senior scammers are abundant! Friends and family need to be alert</title>
		<link>https://ellieadvice.com/senior-scammers-are-abundant-friends-and-family-need-to-be-alert/</link>
		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/senior-scammers-are-abundant-friends-and-family-need-to-be-alert/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Dec 2025 05:00:05 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[brain fog]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[exhaustion]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[hormones]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[intervention]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[love bomb]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[menopause]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[stimulation]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[weight issues]]></category>
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		<title>Merry Christmas!</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Dec 2025 05:00:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[anxiety]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Christmas]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[community]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[depression]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[shock]]></category>
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		<title>Trust your partner when they&#8217;re away from you</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 24 Dec 2025 05:00:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[breaking up]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[consideration]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[full moon]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[patience]]></category>
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		<title>People change because they want to &#8211; not because of you</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Dec 2025 05:00:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[compliment]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[dirty laundry]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[secrets]]></category>
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		<title>Focus on fixing your relationship from within</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 12 Nov 2025 05:00:01 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Affairs]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Cheating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Commitment]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[conclusions]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[distraction]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dumped]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[family]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Friendship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Grieving]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[shock]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[surprise]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[trust]]></category>
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