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		<title>Friends in all the right places</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 27 Mar 2026 04:00:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Figure out what you want out of a relationship before jumping in</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 21 Mar 2026 04:00:10 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<title>Relationships are all about love and compromise</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 28 Feb 2026 05:00:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[affection]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[breastfeeding]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[confrontation]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[disability]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[peace]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[reality]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[schedule]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Separated]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[sympathy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[thoughtfulness]]></category>
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		<title>Make decisions based on what&#8217;s in front of you, not ghosts</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Feb 2026 05:00:30 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Passion]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[seniors]]></category>
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		<title>Remember not to take life &#8211; or yourself &#8211; too seriously</title>
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		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/remember-not-to-take-life-or-yourself-too-seriously/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Feb 2026 05:00:42 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[celebrity]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
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		<title>Acute personality changes require medical attention</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Jan 2026 05:00:07 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<title>Alcohol abuse can have seriously negative effects on the drinker AND their family</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Dec 2025 05:00:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<category><![CDATA[abuse]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Dumped]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[embarrassment]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[protection]]></category>
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		<title>You can fall in love with another, but don&#8217;t drag your partner through the mud</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 15 Nov 2025 05:00:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<category><![CDATA[coincidences]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[connection]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[crush]]></category>
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		<title>Don&#8217;t go backwards in relationships; look to the future</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Oct 2025 04:00:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[breakups]]></category>
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		<title>Every relationship takes compromise</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Jul 2025 04:00:14 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[aging]]></category>
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