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	<title>Ellie &#187; selfish</title>
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		<title>Political beliefs don&#8217;t have to always align for a friendship to work</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 10 Oct 2026 04:00:30 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[adapt]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[disappointment]]></category>
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		<title>Only children have a tough time managing elderly parents alone</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Oct 2026 04:00:28 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[assisted living]]></category>
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		<title>Don&#8217;t allow a sport or activity to turn you into a living widow</title>
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		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/dont-allow-a-sport-or-activity-to-turn-you-into-a-living-widow/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Sep 2026 04:00:44 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[avoidance]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Cheating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Divorce]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[entitlement]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[exhaustion]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[family support]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[freedom]]></category>
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		<title>No one OWNS anyone else. Unless married, everyone is fair game</title>
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		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/no-one-owns-anyone-else-unless-married-everyone-is-fair-game/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Aug 2026 04:00:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[abuse]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[obligation]]></category>
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		<title>Trust your gut; when you know you know</title>
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		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/trust-your-gut-when-you-know-you-know/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Jun 2026 04:00:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[affection]]></category>
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		<title>Talk through your issues &#8211; but a dealbreaker&#8217;s a dealbreaker</title>
		<link>https://ellieadvice.com/talk-through-your-issues-but-a-dealbreakers-a-dealbreaker/</link>
		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/talk-through-your-issues-but-a-dealbreakers-a-dealbreaker/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Jun 2026 04:00:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[annoy]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[cheerleader]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[competition]]></category>
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		<title>People change; move on and find new people</title>
		<link>https://ellieadvice.com/people-change-move-on-and-find-new-people/</link>
		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/people-change-move-on-and-find-new-people/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 06 May 2026 04:00:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[abuse]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Addictions]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[argumentative]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[boring]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[complainer]]></category>
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		<title>Protect those you love, but don&#8217;t jump the gun</title>
		<link>https://ellieadvice.com/protect-those-you-love-but-dont-jump-the-gun/</link>
		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/protect-those-you-love-but-dont-jump-the-gun/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Mar 2026 04:00:31 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[break-up]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[consequences]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[exhaustion]]></category>
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		<title>Bad behaviour has consequences</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Jan 2026 05:00:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[anger]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[attention]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[immature]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[unkind]]></category>
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		<title>If your partner isn&#8217;t supportive, why are you still together?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Sep 2025 04:00:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[angry]]></category>
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