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		<title>Protect those you love, but don&#8217;t jump the gun</title>
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		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/protect-those-you-love-but-dont-jump-the-gun/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Mar 2026 04:00:31 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[break-up]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[consequences]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[exhaustion]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[family]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[family support]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[In-laws]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[long-distance dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Marriage]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[names]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[parenting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[protection]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[regrets]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[secret]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[selfish]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[siblings]]></category>
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		<title>Bad behaviour has consequences</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Jan 2026 05:00:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Column]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[anger]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[apology]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[attention]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[charming]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Cheating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[cruel]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[depression]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[disrespectful]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Divorce]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[dynamics]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Eddie Haskell syndrome]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[family]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Friendship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[immature]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[impressionable]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[In-laws]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[logic]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[lust]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[manipulative]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Marriage]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[pain]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[parenting]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[respectful]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[selfish]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[siblings]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Teenagers]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[unkind]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[worry]]></category>

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		<title>If your partner isn&#8217;t supportive, why are you still together?</title>
		<link>https://ellieadvice.com/if-your-partner-isnt-supportive-why-are-you-still-together/</link>
		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/if-your-partner-isnt-supportive-why-are-you-still-together/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Sep 2025 04:00:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Column]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[angry]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[annoyed]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[conception&pregnancy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[crisis]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[ectopic pregnancy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[family]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[family support]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Friendship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Health Issues]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[ob/gyn]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[parental support]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Romance]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[self-centred]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[selfish]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[seniors]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[siblings]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[spousal support]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Unhealthy Relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Youth]]></category>

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		<title>Give people the benefit of the doubt</title>
		<link>https://ellieadvice.com/give-people-the-benefit-of-the-doubt/</link>
		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/give-people-the-benefit-of-the-doubt/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 19 May 2025 04:00:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Column]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[abuse]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[alienation]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[benefit of the doubt]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[cognitive decline]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[domestic abuse]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[engagement]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[errands]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Friendship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[gaslighting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[immature]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[isolation]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[judgement]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[limitations]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Marriage]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[parenting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Red Flags]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[self-absorbed]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[self-centred]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[selfish]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[siblings]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Youth]]></category>

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		<title>People deal with friendship differently. Work it out for your marriage&#8217;s sake</title>
		<link>https://ellieadvice.com/people-deal-with-friendship-differently-work-it-out-for-your-marriages-sake/</link>
		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/people-deal-with-friendship-differently-work-it-out-for-your-marriages-sake/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 24 Mar 2025 04:00:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Column]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[angry]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[apology]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[blame]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[confidentiality]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Covid-19]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[depression]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[disappointment]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[family]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[fears]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Fighting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[forgiveness]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[frenemy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Friendship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[generosity]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[gossip]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[grudges]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[kindness]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[lockdown]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[loyalty]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Lying]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Marriage]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[mental health issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[parenting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[reflection]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[selfish]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[siblings]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[suicidal]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[therapy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[travel]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[weight issues]]></category>

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		<title>When someone gives you a gift, it&#8217;s yours to do with as you please</title>
		<link>https://ellieadvice.com/when-someone-gives-you-a-gift-its-yours-to-do-with-as-you-please/</link>
		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/when-someone-gives-you-a-gift-its-yours-to-do-with-as-you-please/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Mar 2025 04:00:52 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Column]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[annoyed]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[autism]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[charity]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[child care]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Death]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[education]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[estate planning]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[estrangement]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[family]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Friendship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[gifting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[grandparenting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[grateful]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Health Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[loss of a loved one]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Marriage]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[memories]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Money Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[parenting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[responsibility]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[retired]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[selfish]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[siblings]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[spectrum]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[widow]]></category>

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		<title>Open marriages IF AND ONLY IF BOTH partners agree</title>
		<link>https://ellieadvice.com/open-marriages-if-and-only-if-both-partners-agree/</link>
		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/open-marriages-if-and-only-if-both-partners-agree/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 12 Oct 2024 04:00:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Column]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Affairs]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[breakups]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Commitment]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[confidante]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[confusion]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[connection]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Deal Breakers]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[depression]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dumped]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[emotional affair]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[entitlement]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[extra-marital sex]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[family]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Friendship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[hurt]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[immature]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[lovers]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Lying]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[marital issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Marriage]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[maturity]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[open marriage]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[parenting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[pregnant]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[self-centred]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[selfish]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Sex]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[teenage pregnancy]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Withholding Sex]]></category>

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		<title>Sleep deprivation can be life altering</title>
		<link>https://ellieadvice.com/sleep-deprivation-can-be-life-altering/</link>
		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/sleep-deprivation-can-be-life-altering/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Aug 2024 04:00:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Column]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[acupuncture]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[anxiety]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[brain fog]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[charity]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Covid-19]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[depression]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[exhaustion]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[forgetfulness]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Health Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[insomnia]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[judgemental]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Marriage]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[massage]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[medical attention]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[meditation]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[menopause]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Money Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[parenting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[peace of mind]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[public service]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[selfish]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[sleep deprivation]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[sleep habits]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[sleep issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[social responsibility]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[stress]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[support]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[wealth]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[yoga]]></category>

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		<title>Focus on feeling good rather than looking good</title>
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		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/focus-on-feeling-good-rather-than-looking-good/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Oct 2023 04:00:31 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Column]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[adoption]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[attention]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[beauty]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Christmas]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[family]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Fighting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Friendship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[genetics]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[grandparenting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Health Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[holidays]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[In-laws]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Marriage]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[parenting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[selfish]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[traditions]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[triggers]]></category>

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		<title>YOU ARE NOT ALONE!!!!</title>
		<link>https://ellieadvice.com/you-are-not-alone/</link>
		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/you-are-not-alone/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Oct 2023 04:00:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Column]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[abandonment]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Affairs]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[caregiver]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Cheating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Christmas]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Deal Breakers]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Death]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[emotions]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[family]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[grandparenting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Health Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[heartbreak]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[In-laws]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Marriage]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Money Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[multigenerational relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[orphan]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[parental abandonment]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[pregnant]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[respect]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[selfish]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[siblings]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Step Parents]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Teenagers]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[travel]]></category>

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