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		<title>If you&#8217;re not happy, make changes to your life</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 20 Apr 2026 04:00:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[anniversary]]></category>
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		<title>Too much family time is too much family time</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Mar 2026 05:00:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[annoyed]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[discipline]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[embarrassment]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[life stages]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[manners]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[peer pressure]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[relax]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[routine]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[safety]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[self-confidence]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[self-esteem]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[siblings]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Teenagers]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[transgender]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[weight issues]]></category>

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		<title>Be kind to your in-laws</title>
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		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/be-kind-to-your-in-laws/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 24 Jan 2026 05:00:30 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Column]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[appreciation]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[depression]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[family]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[family vacations]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Flirting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Friendship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[generosity]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[grandparenting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[gratification]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[guilt]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[In-laws]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Kissing]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[lonely]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Marriage]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Money Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[neighbours]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[parenting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[regrets]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[self-esteem]]></category>
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		<title>Family feuds affect everyone</title>
		<link>https://ellieadvice.com/family-feuds-affect-everyone/</link>
		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/family-feuds-affect-everyone/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Jan 2026 05:00:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[ADHD]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[contention]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[devoted]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[extremism]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[hate]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[learning disabilities]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[social media]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[tolerance]]></category>

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		<title>If you don&#8217;t tolerate cheating, don&#8217;t!</title>
		<link>https://ellieadvice.com/if-you-dont-tolerate-cheating-dont/</link>
		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/if-you-dont-tolerate-cheating-dont/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 03 Jan 2026 05:00:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Column]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Affairs]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[behavioural issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Cheating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[communication]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[custody]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Divorce]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[family]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Friendship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[grey divorce]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[infidelity]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[intimacy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Jealousy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[lonely]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Money Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[New Years Eve]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[party]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[pressure]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[retirement]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[rude]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[trust]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[widow]]></category>

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		<title>Set boundaries with people, if necessary</title>
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		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/set-boundaries-with-people-if-necessary/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Dec 2025 05:00:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[annoy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[boundaries]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[caregivers]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[compassion]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Covid-19]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[loss of a loved one]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[mental health issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Money Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[pressure]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[resentment]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[retired]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[self-esteem]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[stress]]></category>
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		<title>Good sex happens when it&#8217;s a shared experience &#8211; not one person&#8217;s pleasure</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 08 Nov 2025 05:00:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[aggressive]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[annoyed]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[comfort]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[consent]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[control]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[cowgirl position]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[dominating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[intimacy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Marriage]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[orgasms]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[self-pleasure]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Sex]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[sexuality]]></category>
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		<title>When friendships get abused&#8230;.</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 02 Aug 2025 04:00:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[abuse]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[anger]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[anxiety]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[confidence]]></category>
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		<title>Mind your own business</title>
		<link>https://ellieadvice.com/mind-your-own-business-5/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 27 Mar 2025 04:00:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[abuse]]></category>
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		<title>Sexless marriages ONLY work if BOTH partners agree</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 11 Jan 2025 05:00:10 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[abstinence]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[desire]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[family]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[family vacations]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[intimacy]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[libido]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[male menopause]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[menopause]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[parenting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[rape]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[self-esteem]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Snooping]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Withholding Sex]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Youth]]></category>

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