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		<title>Innocent until proven guilty</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 11 Apr 2026 04:00:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<title>In times of crises, family ralies and puts differences aside</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 04 Mar 2026 05:00:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[car accident]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[conflict]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[secrets]]></category>
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		<title>Cheating hurts so many people&#8230;..</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Feb 2026 05:00:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[boasting]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[companionship]]></category>
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		<title>If the cheater won&#8217;t admit it&#8230;.. call their bluff!</title>
		<link>https://ellieadvice.com/if-the-cheater-wont-admit-it-call-their-bluff/</link>
		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/if-the-cheater-wont-admit-it-call-their-bluff/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Jan 2026 05:00:14 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[abuse]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[autonomy]]></category>
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		<title>NEVER give away anyone else&#8217;s secrets</title>
		<link>https://ellieadvice.com/never-give-away-anyone-elses-secrets/</link>
		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/never-give-away-anyone-elses-secrets/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Jan 2026 05:00:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[anxiety]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[apology]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[cult]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[diminishment]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[emotional distress]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Friendship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[ghosted]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[gratitude]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[holidays]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[hope]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[secrets]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[siblings]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[triggers]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[trust]]></category>

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		<title>Trust your instincts &#8211; especially with regards to your children</title>
		<link>https://ellieadvice.com/trust-your-instincts-especially-with-regards-to-your-children/</link>
		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/trust-your-instincts-especially-with-regards-to-your-children/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Dec 2025 05:00:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[FaceTime]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[grandparenting]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[instincts]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[maternal instinct]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[safety]]></category>
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		<title>People change because they want to &#8211; not because of you</title>
		<link>https://ellieadvice.com/people-change-because-they-want-to-not-because-of-you/</link>
		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/people-change-because-they-want-to-not-because-of-you/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Dec 2025 05:00:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[apology]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[compliment]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[dirty laundry]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Divorce]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dumped]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[fat-shaming]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Friendship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[honesty]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[nosey]]></category>
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		<title>EVERYONE snoops! Just be careful for what (and how) you snoop</title>
		<link>https://ellieadvice.com/everyone-snoops-just-be-careful-for-what-and-how-you-snoop/</link>
		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/everyone-snoops-just-be-careful-for-what-and-how-you-snoop/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 20 Nov 2025 05:00:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Cheating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[communication]]></category>
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		<title>More kids, more bills</title>
		<link>https://ellieadvice.com/more-kids-more-bills/</link>
		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/more-kids-more-bills/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Nov 2025 05:00:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[boundaries]]></category>
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		<title>You can fall in love with another, but don&#8217;t drag your partner through the mud</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 15 Nov 2025 05:00:30 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[coincidences]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[connection]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[crush]]></category>
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