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		<title>We are not responsible for the behaviour of our adult family members</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 18 Apr 2026 04:00:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[abuse]]></category>
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		<title>Acute personality changes require medical attention</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Jan 2026 05:00:07 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<title>More kids, more bills</title>
		<link>https://ellieadvice.com/more-kids-more-bills/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Nov 2025 05:00:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[boundaries]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[conception&pregnancy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[confidence]]></category>
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		<title>Kep your STRONG opinions to yourself and agree to disagree</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Apr 2025 04:00:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[ashamed]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Friendship]]></category>
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		<title>It takes a village&#8230;.. look out for your neighbours</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Dec 2024 05:00:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Bullying]]></category>
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		<title>Not every freindship is supposed to become a romantic relationship</title>
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		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/not-every-freindship-is-supposed-to-become-a-romantic-relationship/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 09 Feb 2024 05:00:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Addictions]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[compassion]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Separated]]></category>
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		<title>Grief is personal and changes with time</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Dec 2022 05:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Death]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[grief]]></category>
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		<title>Alcoholics need help. It&#8217;s a disease, not a choice.</title>
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		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/alcoholics-need-help-its-a-disease-not-a-choice/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 04 Jan 2022 05:00:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[alcoholics]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[alienation]]></category>
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		<title>Traditional family customs sometimes need modernizing</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Nov 2021 04:00:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[abuse]]></category>
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		<title>Projecting indiscretions is common amongst cheaters</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 04 May 2019 04:00:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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