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		<title>Summer is for relaxing, but also learning</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 03 Aug 2026 04:00:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>When you&#8217;re making plans, confirm and reconfirm so you know people are committed</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 27 Jul 2026 04:00:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<category><![CDATA[bugs]]></category>
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		<title>Help your friend in the way SHE wants</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Jul 2026 04:00:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[cottage issues]]></category>
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		<title>EVERYONE needs sunshine, fresh air and a break from screens</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 08 Jul 2026 04:00:52 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<title>Some people need a lesson in boundaries</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 22 Jun 2026 04:00:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[apology]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[chores]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
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		<title>Everyone grieves differently. Let the pain subside before making rash decisions</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Apr 2026 04:00:52 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[behaviour]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[collateral damage]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Death]]></category>
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		<title>Appreciate the kindness of others</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 07 Mar 2026 05:00:53 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<title>Stealing is illegal &#8211; full stop</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 28 Nov 2025 05:00:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Be supportive of your people</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Jul 2025 04:00:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<title>Most parents do the best they can &#8211; even if you don&#8217;t like it!</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Jul 2025 04:00:33 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[anxiety]]></category>
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