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	<title>Ellie &#187; roommates</title>
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		<title>Blended families take work to keep it as seamless as possible</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 13 Nov 2025 05:00:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[appreciation]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[attention]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[attitude]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Blended Families]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[renovations]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[roommates]]></category>
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		<title>No time to play&#8230;.</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Sep 2025 04:00:56 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[accent]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[breakups]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[cultural appropriation]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Dumped]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Friendship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[jetlag]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[kindness]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[parenting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[priorities]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[roommates]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Single Life]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[student]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Teenagers]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[timing]]></category>
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		<title>It&#8217;s all in the way you ask&#8230;..</title>
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		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/its-all-in-the-way-you-ask/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Sep 2025 04:00:39 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Column]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[argument]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Commitment]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[common-law]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[family]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Friendship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Health Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[memories]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[music]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[neighbours]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[noise bylaw]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[noise issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[roommates]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[succession]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[wills]]></category>

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		<title>Parent-child relationships are fluid and change over time</title>
		<link>https://ellieadvice.com/parent-child-relationships-are-fluid-and-change-over-time/</link>
		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/parent-child-relationships-are-fluid-and-change-over-time/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Sep 2025 04:00:25 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Column]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[attitude]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[boundaries]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[cultural norms]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[dementia]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[dynamics]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[failure to launch]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[family]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Friendship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[grown-ups]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Health Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[impulse]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[intervention]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[massage]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Money Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[non-binary]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[personality]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[traits]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[unity]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[work-from-home]]></category>
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		<title>Be kind and patient when your partner is going through life changes</title>
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		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/be-kind-and-patient-when-your-partner-is-going-through-life-changes/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 11 Aug 2025 04:00:05 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Column]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[allergies]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[communication]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Death]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[dental hygiene]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[grief]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Grieving]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[halitosis]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Health Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[lonely]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Loss]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[loss of a loved one]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Marriage]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[menopause]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[retirement]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[roommates]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[siblings]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[spousal support]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[stress]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[suffering]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[travel]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[weight issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[work stress]]></category>

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		<title>Don&#8217;t point fingers unless you&#8217;re fairly certain you&#8217;re right</title>
		<link>https://ellieadvice.com/dont-point-fingers-unless-youre-fairly-certain-youre-right/</link>
		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/dont-point-fingers-unless-youre-fairly-certain-youre-right/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 13 Mar 2025 04:00:10 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Column]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[accusations]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[child care]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[complain]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[conspiracy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Covid-19]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[cure]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[false accusations]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[family]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[foreplay]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Friendship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Health Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[lockdown]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[long COVID]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Marriage]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[masking]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[parenting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[pressure]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[respect]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[roommates]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[second thoughts]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[stealing]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[support]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[treatment]]></category>

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		<title>Having an affair is NOT the only choice</title>
		<link>https://ellieadvice.com/having-an-affair-is-not-the-only-choice/</link>
		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/having-an-affair-is-not-the-only-choice/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Mar 2025 05:00:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Column]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Affairs]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[affection]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[body shaming]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[cuddle]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[date night]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[family]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Fighting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Friendship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[intimacy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[lonely]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Lying]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Marriage]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[roommates]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[seniors]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[seniors sex]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Separated]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[suspicious]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[threats]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[trust]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[widow]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Withholding Sex]]></category>

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		<title>Inappropriate behaviour can be a sign of discomfort</title>
		<link>https://ellieadvice.com/inappropriate-behaviour-can-be-a-sign-of-discomfort/</link>
		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/inappropriate-behaviour-can-be-a-sign-of-discomfort/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 13 Feb 2025 05:00:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[abuse]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[accusations]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[alcohol abuse]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[apology]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[cancer]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[chauvinist]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[cultural differences]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[disruptor]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[family]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[judge]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[party]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[religion]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[retirement]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[rude]]></category>
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		<title>Lewd behaviour is unattractive and disrespectful</title>
		<link>https://ellieadvice.com/lewd-behaviour-is-unattractive-and-disrespectful/</link>
		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/lewd-behaviour-is-unattractive-and-disrespectful/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 25 Jan 2025 05:00:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[behaviour]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[competition]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[disrespectful]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[family]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[femtrum]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Friendship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[hysterical]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[insult]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[lewd]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[mantrum]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Marriage]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[obscenity]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Porn]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[respect]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[revenge]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[revenge porn]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[sexist]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[sexual predators]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[siblings]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[suggestive]]></category>
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		<title>Give people a chance before judging</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Jan 2025 05:00:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Column]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[assumptions]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[boredom]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[depression]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[family]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Friendship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[frustration]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Health Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[hormonal imbalance]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[long-distance dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Marriage]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[panic attacks]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[parenting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Romance]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[roommates]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[siblings]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[triggers]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[vacation]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Youth]]></category>

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