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		<title>If you can afford it, you should be able to live as you wish in your 90s</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Apr 2026 04:00:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>If you notice cognitive decline in a friend or loved one, get them help</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 09 Apr 2026 04:00:42 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<title>You&#8217;re not your sister&#8217;s keeper</title>
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		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/youre-not-your-sisters-keeper/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 08 Apr 2026 04:00:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<title>Empty nesting isn&#8217;t for everyone</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 21 Feb 2026 05:00:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<title>Sometimes it&#8217;s just not worth the fight</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Jan 2026 05:00:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[ADHD]]></category>
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		<title>If you don&#8217;t tolerate cheating, don&#8217;t!</title>
		<link>https://ellieadvice.com/if-you-dont-tolerate-cheating-dont/</link>
		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/if-you-dont-tolerate-cheating-dont/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 03 Jan 2026 05:00:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<title>The glass is either half full or half empty. You choose</title>
		<link>https://ellieadvice.com/the-glass-is-either-half-full-or-half-empty-you-choose/</link>
		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/the-glass-is-either-half-full-or-half-empty-you-choose/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Dec 2025 05:00:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[anxiety]]></category>
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		<title>More kids, more bills</title>
		<link>https://ellieadvice.com/more-kids-more-bills/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Nov 2025 05:00:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<title>Compromise takes hard work</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 31 Oct 2025 04:00:30 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<title>It&#8217;s naive to think love conquers all, but it can build bridges</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 09 Oct 2025 04:00:55 +0000</pubDate>
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