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		<title>Everyone grieves differently</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 15 Aug 2026 04:00:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<category><![CDATA[accident]]></category>
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		<title>Summer is for relaxing, but also learning</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 03 Aug 2026 04:00:49 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[alcohol issues]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[compassion]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Red Flags]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[rules]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[stress]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Suicide]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[traditions]]></category>
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		<title>Complaining doesn&#8217;t create change</title>
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		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/complaining-doesnt-create-change/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 30 Jul 2026 04:00:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Column]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[adversity]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[apology]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[camping]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[complainer]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[control]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[drinking]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Friendship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[human resources]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[laws]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Money Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[neighbour]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[peace]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[pets]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Romance]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[siblings]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[tranquility]]></category>
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		<title>High school to university years are normal times of change</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 24 Jul 2026 04:00:05 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[adversity]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[closeness]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[comfort]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[criticism]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[truth]]></category>
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		<title>Major life changes take time to settle into. Be patient</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Jul 2026 04:00:25 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Column]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[body shaming]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[career coach]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[chores]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[control]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[discomfort]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[exhaustion]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[family]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[financial insecurity]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[fired]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Friendship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[guidance counselor]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[hurt]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[judgement]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[life coach]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[pets]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[precedent]]></category>
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		<title>Blended families need to work TOGETHER for harmony</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 02 May 2026 04:00:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[abuse]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[alienation]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[attitude]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Blended Families]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[compromise]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[family]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[gratitude]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[horny]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[moving in]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[pain]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Red Flags]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[self-protection]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Sex]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[sexual pleasure]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[tantrums]]></category>
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		<title>We are not responsible for the behaviour of our adult family members</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 18 Apr 2026 04:00:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[abuse]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[break-up]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[exhaustion]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[exploitation]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[family]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Friendship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[kindness]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Money Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Red Flags]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[secrecy]]></category>
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		<title>Bipolar disorder can be hard to control</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Feb 2026 05:00:53 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[abuse]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Affairs]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[aggressive]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[angry]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[approval]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[behavioural issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[bipolar disorder]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Divorce]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[mental health issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[opinionated]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[parenting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[personality disorder]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Red Flags]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[scammers]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[siblings]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[stability]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[vacation]]></category>
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		<title>A double cheater clearly has a problem with commitment</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 31 Jan 2026 05:00:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Addictions]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[adoption]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[advice]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[amoral]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Cheating]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[double life]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[kleptomania]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[memories]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[proposal]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[puppy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Red Flags]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[shoplifting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[stealing]]></category>

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		<title>Seek professional advice, NOT Doctor Google</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Jan 2026 05:00:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[abuse]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[advice]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[blame]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[consequences]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[fear]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Fighting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[generosity]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[gratitude]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Health Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[holidays]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[instincts]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[mental health issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[mid-life crisis]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Money Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[overprotective]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[parental control]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[parental instinct]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[parenting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[persistent]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[pressure]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Red Flags]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[sexual abuse]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[siblings]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[support]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[swearing]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Teenagers]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[vacation]]></category>

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