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		<title>Bipolar disorder can be hard to control</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Feb 2026 05:00:53 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[abuse]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[conflict]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[decisions]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Divorce]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[drama]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[dysfunction]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[honesty]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[immature]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[infidelity]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[manic]]></category>
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		<title>A double cheater clearly has a problem with commitment</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 31 Jan 2026 05:00:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Addictions]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[adoption]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[advice]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[amoral]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Cheating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[double life]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[kleptomania]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[memories]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[proposal]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[puppy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Red Flags]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[shoplifting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[stealing]]></category>

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		<title>Seek professional advice, NOT Doctor Google</title>
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		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/seek-professional-advice-not-doctor-google/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Jan 2026 05:00:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[abuse]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[advice]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[blame]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[consequences]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[fear]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Fighting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[generosity]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[gratitude]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Health Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[holidays]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[instincts]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[mental health issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[mid-life crisis]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Money Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[overprotective]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[parental control]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[parental instinct]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[parenting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[persistent]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[pressure]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Red Flags]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[sexual abuse]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[siblings]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[support]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[swearing]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Teenagers]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[vacation]]></category>

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		<title>Honesty and transparency work best</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 10 Jan 2026 05:00:36 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Affairs]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Cheating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Christmas]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[confusion]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[emotional affair]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[fake orgasm]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[first love]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Friendship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[healing]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[heartbreak]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Internet Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[manipulative]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Marriage]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[maturity]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[one-night stand]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[overprotective]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[parenting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Red Flags]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[rejection]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[rite of passage]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[sincere]]></category>
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		<title>New generation&#8230;.. new world</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 05 Jan 2026 05:00:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[compromise]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Covid-19]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[diversity]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Friendship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[generations]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[harrassment]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[heartbreak]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Internet Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[judge]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[language barrier]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[lonely]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[marijuana]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[senior]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[travel]]></category>
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		<title>Senior scammers are abundant! Friends and family need to be alert</title>
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		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/senior-scammers-are-abundant-friends-and-family-need-to-be-alert/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Dec 2025 05:00:05 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[brain fog]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[exhaustion]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[family]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Friendship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Health Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[hormones]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[love bomb]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[menopause]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Money Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[perimenopause]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[scammers]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[shock]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[sleep deprivation]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[sleep issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[stimulation]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[symptoms]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[weight issues]]></category>
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		<title>Alcohol abuse can have seriously negative effects on the drinker AND their family</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Dec 2025 05:00:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[abuse]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[ashamed]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[coworkers]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[defensive]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[protection]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[shy]]></category>
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		<title>Blended families take work to keep it as seamless as possible</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 13 Nov 2025 05:00:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[appreciation]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[attention]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[attitude]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Blended Families]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[controlling]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[cottage issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Divorce]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Fighting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[gifting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Health Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[inheritance]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Marriage]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Money Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[parenting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Red Flags]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[renovations]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[roommates]]></category>
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		<title>Give people the benefit of the doubt</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 19 May 2025 04:00:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[domestic abuse]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[errands]]></category>
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		<title>Embarrasing moments happen to everyone. Just laugh it off</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 26 Apr 2025 04:00:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[abuse]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[respect]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Sex]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[travel ban]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[trust]]></category>
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