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		<title>Excuses, excuses &#8211; after awhile, they don&#8217;t hold their weight</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Mar 2026 04:00:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[abandonment]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[anxiety]]></category>
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		<title>There&#8217;s no grief like the loss of a pet</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Feb 2026 05:00:53 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Column]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Addictions]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[adoption]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[boundaries]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[children's aid]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[cleanliness]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[senior]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Sex]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[sleepovers]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[UTI]]></category>

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		<title>Bad behaviour has consequences</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Jan 2026 05:00:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Column]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[anger]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[apology]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[attention]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[charming]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Cheating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[cruel]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[depression]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[disrespectful]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[family]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Friendship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[immature]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[impressionable]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[unkind]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[worry]]></category>

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		<title>The holidays are for family and gratitude</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Dec 2025 05:00:11 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[pain]]></category>
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		<title>Don&#8217;t let a sore loser get under your skin</title>
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		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/dont-let-a-sore-loser-get-under-your-skin/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Dec 2025 05:00:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[anger issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[approval]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Cheating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[menopause]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[night sweats]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[parental support]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[symptoms]]></category>
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		<title>Speak up for what you believe &#8211; but always take precaution</title>
		<link>https://ellieadvice.com/speak-up-for-what-you-believe-but-always-take-precaution/</link>
		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/speak-up-for-what-you-believe-but-always-take-precaution/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Oct 2025 04:00:07 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Column]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[anxiety]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[boundaries]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[cancer]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[conscience]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[hallucinations]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[language barrier]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[palliative]]></category>
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		<title>Sibling support shines</title>
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		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/sibling-support-shines/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Nov 2024 05:00:33 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[abuse]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[adoption]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[anger]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[appearance]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[balance]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[date night]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[depression]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[disappointment]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Divorce]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[drinking]]></category>
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		<title>Everyone grieves differently&#8230; but don&#8217;t let it get the better of you</title>
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		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/everyone-grieves-differently-but-dont-let-it-get-the-better-of-you/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 02 Feb 2024 05:00:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[abandonment]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Addictions]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[alcohol abuse]]></category>
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		<title>Adult children have the right to privacy, even from their parents</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 23 Sep 2023 04:00:22 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[anger]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[boundaries]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Cheating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[control issues]]></category>
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		<title>Family members who care, look after each other</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Jun 2023 04:00:42 +0000</pubDate>
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