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		<title>Harmful labels need to addressed BEFORE they stick</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Feb 2026 05:00:15 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[abuse]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[convicted]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[doom scrolling]]></category>
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		<title>No one EVER has to agree to go on a date with anyone</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Feb 2026 05:00:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[appreciation]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[attraction]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[break-ups]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[buzzkill]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[closure]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[ghosted]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[holidays]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[laughter]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[loneliness]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Marriage]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[mature]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[milestones]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[negative]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[parenting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[pride]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[siblings]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[volunteer]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[weddings]]></category>

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		<title>The holidays are for family and gratitude</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Dec 2025 05:00:11 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[angry]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[birthdays]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[childhood trauma]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[confidence]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[depression]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[isolation]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[life lessons]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[manners]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[ostracize]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[pain]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[personality]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[senior]]></category>
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		<title>The glass is either half full or half empty. You choose</title>
		<link>https://ellieadvice.com/the-glass-is-either-half-full-or-half-empty-you-choose/</link>
		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/the-glass-is-either-half-full-or-half-empty-you-choose/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Dec 2025 05:00:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[anxiety]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Covid-19]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[distant]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[failure to launch]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[immature]]></category>
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		<title>Social Media is not the place to air your dirty laundry for the world to see</title>
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		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/social-media-is-not-the-place-to-air-your-dirty-laundry/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 10 May 2025 04:00:12 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Column]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[criticism]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Deal Breakers]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[diabetes]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[dirty laundry]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Facebook]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[family]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Friendship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[gay]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Health Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[honesty]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Jealousy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[negative]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[public shaming]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[respect]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[safe sex]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Sex]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[social media]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[suspicious]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[theft]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[weight loss]]></category>

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		<title>You MUST do what&#8217;s right for you</title>
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		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/you-must-do-whats-right-for-you/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 12 Apr 2025 04:00:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Column]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[behaviour]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[chemistry]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[complainer]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[couples' therapy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[depression]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Divorce]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Fighting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Friendship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[frustration]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[generational pain]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[grandparenting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[hormonal imbalance]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[hurt]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[patterns]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[stress]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[surprise]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[trust]]></category>
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		<title>Changes in personality need to be addressed</title>
		<link>https://ellieadvice.com/changes-in-personality-need-to-be-addressed/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 30 May 2024 04:00:52 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[charity]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[chatterbox]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[cottage issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Covid-19]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[despair]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[family]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[gifting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[hormones]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[nagging]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[parenting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[perimenopause]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[pressure]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[siblings]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[wills]]></category>

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		<title>Being friendly and making friends is a superpower</title>
		<link>https://ellieadvice.com/being-friendly-and-making-friends-is-a-superpower/</link>
		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/being-friendly-and-making-friends-is-a-superpower/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 15 May 2024 04:00:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[anger]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[doubt]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[travel]]></category>
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		<title>In-laws</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 13 Apr 2024 04:00:55 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Column]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[advice]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Controllers]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[fears]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[parental guilt]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[partnership]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[respect]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[TV]]></category>
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		<title>There&#8217;s room in your life for your sister, your mom, your daughter and your wife</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 26 Aug 2023 04:00:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[adoption]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Affairs]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[After an Affair]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[alcoholics]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[gender discrimination]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[gossip]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Marriage]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[negative]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[parenting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Romance]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[siblings]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[tension]]></category>

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