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		<title>Cheating hurts so many people&#8230;..</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Feb 2026 05:00:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<category><![CDATA[boasting]]></category>
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		<title>Moms against motorcycles</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Sep 2025 04:00:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Parenting is a constant flux in stages and phases</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Apr 2025 04:00:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[accusations]]></category>
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		<title>When you find family, reach out</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 02 Aug 2024 04:00:39 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<title>Fortunately, fashion trends come and go</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 29 Jul 2024 04:00:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<title>Manners maketh man (and woman) &#8211; Shakespeare&#8217;s Hamlet</title>
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		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/manners-maketh-man-and-woman-shakespeares-hamlet/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Jul 2024 04:00:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<title>Trust that your partner loves you for you</title>
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		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/trust-that-your-partner-loves-you-for-you/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 14 Jun 2024 04:00:53 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[appearance]]></category>
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		<title>Grandparenting is all the love without all the rules</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 29 Jul 2023 04:00:38 +0000</pubDate>
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