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		<title>Talk calmly, explain gratitude, stop doing</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Jul 2026 04:00:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Moving on is hard; stay positive</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 29 Jun 2026 04:00:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>City raccoons are NOT pets</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 27 May 2026 04:00:14 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[anxiety]]></category>
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		<title>Bullying should not be tolerated ANYWHERE by ANYONE</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 07 May 2026 04:00:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<title>If you can afford it, you should be able to live as you wish in your 90s</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Apr 2026 04:00:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Be kind, be polite, but feel free to walk away from strangers</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Mar 2026 04:00:07 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<title>Some people never get over their high school years</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Mar 2026 04:00:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<title>A double cheater clearly has a problem with commitment</title>
		<link>https://ellieadvice.com/a-double-cheater-clearly-has-a-problem-with-commitment/</link>
		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/a-double-cheater-clearly-has-a-problem-with-commitment/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 31 Jan 2026 05:00:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<title>Don&#8217;t go backwards in relationships; look to the future</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Oct 2025 04:00:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>It&#8217;s all in the way you ask&#8230;..</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Sep 2025 04:00:39 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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