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		<title>Talk through your issues &#8211; but a dealbreaker&#8217;s a dealbreaker</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Jun 2026 04:00:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Decide what you want, then figure out how to get it</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Jun 2026 04:00:28 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[autism]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[boundaries]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Cheating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[complain]]></category>
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		<title>Get off your phone and make friends IRL (in real life)!!</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 23 May 2026 04:00:37 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Addictions]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[advice]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[AI]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[anxiety]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[bad habits]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[disability]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[loneliness]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[seniors]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[sleep deprivation]]></category>
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		<title>Partners must accept family members, regardless of pre-existing prejudices</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Feb 2026 05:00:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[ageing]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[siblings]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[solitude]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[stimulation]]></category>
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		<title>Don&#8217;t let a sore loser get under your skin</title>
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		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/dont-let-a-sore-loser-get-under-your-skin/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Dec 2025 05:00:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[anger issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[approval]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[secret]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[tantrums]]></category>
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		<title>Let go of other people&#8217;s judgements</title>
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		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/let-go-of-other-peoples-judgements/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 29 Nov 2025 05:00:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[bonding]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[breastfeeding]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[childbirth]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[consent]]></category>
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		<title>Getting to know your neighbours means different things for different people</title>
		<link>https://ellieadvice.com/getting-to-know-your-neighbours-means-different-things-for-different-people/</link>
		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/getting-to-know-your-neighbours-means-different-things-for-different-people/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 22 Nov 2025 05:00:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[alienation]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[balance]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Booty Calls]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Deal Breakers]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[depilatory]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[gratitude]]></category>
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		<title>Do NOT judge other people&#8217;s fashion</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 24 Oct 2025 04:00:30 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[annoyed]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[boring]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[breakups]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[control]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[siblings]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[stalking]]></category>
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		<title>Teach your children to pivot</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Sep 2025 04:00:22 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[abuse]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[birthdays]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[celebrations]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[parenting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Protective Parents]]></category>
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		<title>Extramarital affairs hurt so many people</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 29 Jul 2025 04:00:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Addictions]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Affairs]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[alcohol abuse]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[grandparenting]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[inclusion]]></category>
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