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		<title>Four against one are unfair odds</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 29 Oct 2025 04:00:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[accusations]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[balance]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Cheating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[classic manipulation]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[deflection]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[false accusations]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[gaslighting]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[insecurity]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[suspicious]]></category>
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		<title>Work WITH your partner to curb those jealous feelings</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Sep 2025 04:00:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[annoyed]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[assumptions]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Cheating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[controlling]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[f]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[family]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Flirting]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[honesty]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[insecurity]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[manipulative]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[narcissism]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[pets]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[privacy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[proud]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[rude]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[safety]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[support]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[validation]]></category>
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		<title>Friendships broken thanks to partners hurts harder</title>
		<link>https://ellieadvice.com/friendships-broken-thanks-to-partners-hurts-harder/</link>
		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/friendships-broken-thanks-to-partners-hurts-harder/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 31 Jul 2025 04:00:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Column]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[apology]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Fighting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Friendship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[guilty]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[inappropriate behaviour]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[lust]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Marriage]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[maturity]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[parenting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[personal growth]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[revealing]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[ride-share]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[rude]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[strength]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Teenagers]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[ultimatum]]></category>

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		<title>Posturing isn&#8217;t a good look &#8211; be yourself</title>
		<link>https://ellieadvice.com/posturing-isnt-a-good-luck-be-yourself/</link>
		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/posturing-isnt-a-good-luck-be-yourself/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Aug 2024 04:00:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Column]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[annoy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[control]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[fear]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Friendship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[fury]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[grudges]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[reputation]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[secrets]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[social status]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[support]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[work-place issues]]></category>
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		<title>Face your fears to the best of your ability</title>
		<link>https://ellieadvice.com/face-your-fears-to-the-best-of-your-ability/</link>
		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/face-your-fears-to-the-best-of-your-ability/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Apr 2024 04:00:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[baggage]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[blind date]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[crime]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dumped]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[fears]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[insecurity]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Jealousy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[judgemental]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Marriage]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Money Issues]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Romance]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Sex]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[siblings]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[social media]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[support]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[travel]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[truth]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Unhealthy Relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Youth]]></category>

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		<title>Don&#8217;t let authority go to your head &#8211; especially when dealing with children</title>
		<link>https://ellieadvice.com/dont-let-authority-go-to-your-head-especially-when-dealing-with-children/</link>
		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/dont-let-authority-go-to-your-head-especially-when-dealing-with-children/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 25 Mar 2024 04:00:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Column]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Affairs]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[authority]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[betrayal]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[boundaries]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[coaching]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Divorce]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Friendship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[insecurity]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[life story]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[neighbour]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[parenting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[possessive]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Protective Parents]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[sports]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[stealing]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[verbal diarrhea]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[weather]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">https://ellieadvice.com/?p=17229</guid>
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		<title>Online friendships that don&#8217;t transfer to real life, are not everlasting</title>
		<link>https://ellieadvice.com/online-friendships-that-dont-transfer-to-real-life-are-not-everlasting/</link>
		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/online-friendships-that-dont-transfer-to-real-life-are-not-everlasting/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Jan 2024 05:00:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Column]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[advice]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[asthma]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[caregiving]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[closed-minded]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dumped]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Friendship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[ghosted]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[gossip]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Health Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[insecurity]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[internet chatting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Jealousy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[parenting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[smoking]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[support]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[travel]]></category>
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		<title>PDA isn&#8217;t for everyone</title>
		<link>https://ellieadvice.com/pda-isnt-for-everyone/</link>
		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/pda-isnt-for-everyone/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 16 Sep 2023 04:00:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Column]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[#metoo]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[affection]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Divorce]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[family]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Friendship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[hugging]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[insecurity]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Kissing]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Marriage]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Money Issues]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[pressure]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[relocation]]></category>
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		<title>Suspicion borne from instinct requires research</title>
		<link>https://ellieadvice.com/suspicion-borne-from-instinct-requires-research/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 27 Jul 2023 04:00:15 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Cheating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[confidence]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[insecurity]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[self-confidence]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[teamwork]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[transgression]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Unhealthy Relationships]]></category>
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		<title>Family helps family when possible</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 10 Jul 2023 04:00:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Divorce]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[family]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Friendship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[hearing loss]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[siblings]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Teenagers]]></category>

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