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	<title>Ellie &#187; In-laws</title>
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		<title>We can&#8217;t control other people&#8217;s actions; we can only control our reactions</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 21 May 2026 04:00:36 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[cancelled]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[chocoholic]]></category>
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		<title>It&#8217;s never too late to get healthy. Go for it!</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 19 May 2026 04:00:05 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[control]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[cravings]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[gay]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[safety]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Sex]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[sports]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Teenagers]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[weight issues]]></category>
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		<title>Phones down, eyes up, mind open</title>
		<link>https://ellieadvice.com/phones-down-eyes-up-mind-open/</link>
		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/phones-down-eyes-up-mind-open/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 14 May 2026 04:00:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Column]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[claustrophobic]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[clutter]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[dance]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Divorce]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[exes]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[family]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[free-spirit]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Friendship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[gearhead]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[grandparenting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[In-laws]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Internet Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[modesty]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[moving in]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[obsessions]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[parenting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[pressure]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[storage]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Teenagers]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[unplug]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[vacation]]></category>
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		<title>Magical Thinking is just that&#8230;.. we can&#8217;t manifest terrible tragedies</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 30 Apr 2026 04:00:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Column]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[abandonment]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[closure]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[coincidences]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Death]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[devastating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[disappearance]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[respect]]></category>
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		<title>Parent-child relationship is constantly in flux</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 29 Apr 2026 04:00:05 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[boundaries]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[entitled]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[expectations]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[expelled]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[fairness]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[family]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Health Issues]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[parental boundaries]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[parenting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[patience]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[retired]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[rude]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[suspension]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Teenagers]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[texting]]></category>

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		<title>Don&#8217;t blame the employees for bad policies</title>
		<link>https://ellieadvice.com/dont-blame-the-employees-for-bad-policies/</link>
		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/dont-blame-the-employees-for-bad-policies/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 28 Apr 2026 04:00:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Column]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[complain]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[disappointment]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[efficiency]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[frustration]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[irresponsible behaviour]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[kindness]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[parenting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[protective pets]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[respect]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[safety]]></category>
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		<title>People behave differently with family</title>
		<link>https://ellieadvice.com/people-behave-differently-with-family/</link>
		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/people-behave-differently-with-family/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 24 Apr 2026 04:00:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[appreciation]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[baby boomers]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[boring]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[communication]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[disappointment]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[disrespectful]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[kind]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[love life]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[road trip]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[texting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[tradition]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[widowhood]]></category>
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		<title>Everyone grieves differently. Let the pain subside before making rash decisions</title>
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		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/everyone-grieves-differently-let-the-pain-subside-before-making-rash-decisions/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Apr 2026 04:00:52 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Column]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[behaviour]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[collateral damage]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[consideration]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Death]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[decisions]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[disappointment]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[entitlement]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[family]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[gifting]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[grief]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[hurt]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[kindness]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[life coach]]></category>
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		<title>Take care of YOU! Those who need you, need you healthy</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Apr 2026 04:00:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[abuse]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[alopecia]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Bullying]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[communication]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[consideration]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[energy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[experience]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[faith]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[feelings]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[prison widow]]></category>
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		<title>PDA is unattractive, especially when crass</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Apr 2026 04:00:05 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Commitment]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[family]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[family dynamics]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Friendship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[generosity of spirit]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[In-laws]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[inappropriate behaviour]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Jealousy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[kindness]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Kissing]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Marriage]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Money Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[parenting]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[sensitive]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Teenagers]]></category>
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