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		<title>Talk calmly, explain gratitude, stop doing</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Jul 2026 04:00:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Work obligations often trump fun</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Jul 2026 04:00:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Everyone grieves differently; be patient and sympathetic</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 24 Jun 2026 04:00:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<title>Life is unpredictable; be flexible</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 15 Jun 2026 04:00:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<title>You never know what&#8217;s going on in other people&#8217;s lives&#8230;&#8230;</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Jun 2026 04:00:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[mind your business]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[travel]]></category>
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		<title>Be an active member of your family</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Jun 2026 04:00:39 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[annoyed]]></category>
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		<title>Decide what you want, then figure out how to get it</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Jun 2026 04:00:28 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<title>Weddings are stressful &#8211; for everyone</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 30 May 2026 04:00:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Seniors have a lot to give and share; don&#8217;t dismiss them!</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 28 May 2026 04:00:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>City raccoons are NOT pets</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 27 May 2026 04:00:14 +0000</pubDate>
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