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		<title>People will only make change when they are ready</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 21 Sep 2026 04:00:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<title>Showing up is proof that you care</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Sep 2026 04:00:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Music is a huge part of life, but unless it&#8217;s your profession, you can&#8217;t let it take over</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 05 Sep 2026 04:00:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>It&#8217;s important to discuss EVERYTHING before marriage</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 26 Aug 2026 04:00:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<category><![CDATA[attention]]></category>
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		<title>In most cases, honesty is the best way forward</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 20 Aug 2026 04:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Every phase of life comes with new challenges</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 05 Aug 2026 04:00:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<title>Sometimes people need a push to do the &#8220;right&#8221; thing</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 28 Jul 2026 04:00:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>When you&#8217;re making plans, confirm and reconfirm so you know people are committed</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 27 Jul 2026 04:00:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Don&#8217;t concern yourself with other people&#8217;s finances</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Jul 2026 04:00:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Talk calmly, explain gratitude, stop doing</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Jul 2026 04:00:06 +0000</pubDate>
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