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		<title>When people start acting out of the ordinary, there&#8217;s usually something else going on</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Oct 2026 04:00:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[cold]]></category>
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		<title>Speaking to people in their language is thoughtful and kind</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Oct 2026 04:00:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[respect]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[rude]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Snooping]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Teenagers]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[tension]]></category>
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		<title>You can&#8217;t control anyone but yourself</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 17 Oct 2026 04:00:11 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[abuse]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[ADHD]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[apology]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[babysitting]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[disconnect]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[disrespectful]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[dogs]]></category>
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		<title>Political beliefs don&#8217;t have to always align for a friendship to work</title>
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		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/political-beliefs-dont-have-to-always-align-for-a-freindship-to-work/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 10 Oct 2026 04:00:30 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Column]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[adapt]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[values]]></category>
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		<title>Milestones happen at different times for people; you&#8217;re allowed to celebrate yours</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 03 Oct 2026 04:00:12 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Column]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[celebrations]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Commitment]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[compassion]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[conception&pregnancy]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[engagement]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[feelings]]></category>
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		<title>Do everything you can so you know you&#8217;ve done your best</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Sep 2026 04:00:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[abuse]]></category>
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		<title>Annual celebrations can get overwhelming</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Sep 2026 04:00:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[abuse]]></category>
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		<title>Friendship is a two-way street &#8211; or it&#8217;s not worth the effort</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 26 Sep 2026 04:00:52 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[anger]]></category>
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		<title>People will only make change when they are ready</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 21 Sep 2026 04:00:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Alzheimers]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Cheating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[confidante]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Divorce]]></category>
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		<title>Showing up is proof that you care</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Sep 2026 04:00:33 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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