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		<title>You&#8217;ll never know if you never ask</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Oct 2026 04:00:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Helpful neighbours are wonderful until it becomes too familiar</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Oct 2026 04:00:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Milestones happen at different times for people; you&#8217;re allowed to celebrate yours</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 03 Oct 2026 04:00:12 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[celebrations]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[compassion]]></category>
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		<title>Do everything you can so you know you&#8217;ve done your best</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Sep 2026 04:00:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<title>Roommates need to have house rules for everyone&#8217;s comfort</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 12 Sep 2026 04:00:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[annoyed]]></category>
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		<title>Everyone deals with grief differently &#8211; don&#8217;t judge</title>
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		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/everyone-deals-with-grief-differently-dont-judge/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Sep 2026 04:00:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[abuse]]></category>
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		<title>Stay out of your children&#8217;s relationships &#8211; unless it&#8217;s clear that help is needed</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 31 Aug 2026 04:00:14 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[breakups]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[halitosis]]></category>
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		<title>Living with people is eye opening</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 19 Aug 2026 04:00:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Remember your roots, and be kind to your parents</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 11 Aug 2026 04:00:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<title>Every phase of life comes with new challenges</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 05 Aug 2026 04:00:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[ADHD]]></category>
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