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		<title>Valentine&#8217;s Day doesn&#8217;t define you</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 14 Feb 2026 05:00:22 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<title>Think positive: The end is always the beginning of something else.</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 31 Dec 2025 05:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<title>Moms against motorcycles</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Sep 2025 04:00:10 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[abandonment]]></category>
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		<title>Life is a journey&#8230;..</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Feb 2025 05:00:49 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<title>Never make assumptions. Ask questions</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 10 Feb 2025 05:00:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<title>During the holidays, and always, do your best for those you love</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Dec 2024 05:00:56 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<title>Don&#8217;t allow people to treat you poorly. Walk away</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 21 Oct 2024 04:00:37 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<title>Sudden life changes can be shocking. Breathe through it and embrace the change</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Sep 2024 04:00:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>An adult who constantly hurts himself needs medical attention</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 19 Jun 2024 04:00:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<title>Moving in together &#8211; for better or worse!</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 08 Jun 2024 04:00:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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