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		<title>Figure out what you want out of a relationship before jumping in</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 21 Mar 2026 04:00:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Don&#8217;t let a sore loser get under your skin</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Dec 2025 05:00:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Asking questions is the only way to get answers</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Dec 2025 05:00:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Conversations lead to understanding</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 25 Oct 2025 04:00:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Unless severe AND family, other people&#8217;s weight isn&#8217;t your issue</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 22 Oct 2025 04:00:14 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[crush]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[defensive]]></category>
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		<title>Believe in yourself</title>
		<link>https://ellieadvice.com/believe-in-yourself-2/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 14 Aug 2025 04:00:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Things happen in the heat of excitement</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Jul 2025 04:00:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>New relationships flourish with open communication</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Jul 2025 04:00:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Show your partner what you like sexually &#8211; everyone&#8217;s different</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 07 Jun 2025 04:00:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Social Media is not the place to air your dirty laundry for the world to see</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 10 May 2025 04:00:12 +0000</pubDate>
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