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		<title>Life can get harder, trickier, tougher</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Mar 2026 05:00:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[abuse]]></category>
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		<title>Four against one are unfair odds</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 29 Oct 2025 04:00:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[accusations]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[balance]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Cheating]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[deflection]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[dynamics]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[false accusations]]></category>
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		<title>Starting over is unchartered territory&#8230;.. go slow</title>
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		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/starting-over-is-unchartered-territory-go-slow/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 27 Jun 2025 04:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[anger]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[bisexuality]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[distance]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Divorce]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[family support]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[gaslighting]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[nervous breakdown]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[parental support]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[parenting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Protective Parents]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[respect]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[safety]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[secrets]]></category>
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		<title>Teenagers often whip attitude around. This too shall pass</title>
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		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/teenagers-often-whip-attitude-around-this-too-shall-pass/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 30 May 2025 04:00:05 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[abuse]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[attitude]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[isolation]]></category>
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		<title>Give people the benefit of the doubt</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 19 May 2025 04:00:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[domestic abuse]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[engagement]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[errands]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Friendship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[gaslighting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[immature]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[isolation]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[judgement]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[limitations]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Marriage]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[parenting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Red Flags]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[self-absorbed]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[self-centred]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[selfish]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[siblings]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Youth]]></category>

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		<title>Customer service is lacking these days&#8230;</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Jan 2025 05:00:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[annoyed]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[attitude]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[borderline personality disorder]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[complain]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[double standards]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[expectations]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[insecurities]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[mean]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[only child]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[rude]]></category>
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		<title>Love is about respect and compromise</title>
		<link>https://ellieadvice.com/love-is-about-respect-and-compromise/</link>
		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/love-is-about-respect-and-compromise/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 25 Nov 2024 05:00:42 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[alcohol abuse]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[change]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[compromise]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Divorce]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[gaslighting]]></category>
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		<title>In-law issues can be the worst!</title>
		<link>https://ellieadvice.com/in-law-issues-can-be-the-worst/</link>
		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/in-law-issues-can-be-the-worst/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 12 Jun 2024 04:00:36 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[apology]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[shame]]></category>
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		<title>If your partner doesn&#8217;t acknowledge you, they aren&#8217;t worth your time</title>
		<link>https://ellieadvice.com/if-your-partner-doesnt-acknowledge-you-they-arent-worth-your-time/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Feb 2024 05:00:25 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[advice]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[anger]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[compromise]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[control]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Divorce]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[family]]></category>
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		<title>Fetishes are fine and not necessarily deviant</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Nov 2023 04:00:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[abandonment]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Cheating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[emotional abuse]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Fantasies]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[fetish]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[foot fetish]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[gaslighting]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[narcissists]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[parental abandonment]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[respect]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Sex]]></category>

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