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		<title>Get clarity before responding</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 13 Dec 2025 05:00:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Parents are allowed to worry&#8230;.. but don&#8217;t project</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 06 Nov 2024 05:00:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Distance yourself from your parents&#8217; dating</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Aug 2024 04:00:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<title>Friendship shouldn&#8217;t be based on financial status</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 08 May 2024 04:00:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[budget]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[control issues]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[label]]></category>
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		<title>In-laws</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 13 Apr 2024 04:00:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<category><![CDATA[TV]]></category>
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		<title>Family&#8217;s can &#8211; and will &#8211; fight, but don&#8217;t let it get out of hand</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 07 Mar 2024 05:00:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[adoption]]></category>
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		<title>Parenting teens through their relationships takes strength</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 21 Oct 2023 04:00:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<title>Once adults, children can decorate their bodies as they choose</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 20 Feb 2023 05:00:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[anxiety]]></category>
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		<title>Avoid self-centred partners</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 13 Aug 2022 04:00:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Love is out there&#8230;.. be open</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 27 May 2022 04:00:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[family]]></category>
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