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		<title>Separate the past from the present as best possible</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 27 Aug 2026 04:00:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Dogs should not be penned in all day</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 10 Aug 2026 04:00:49 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<title>Nobody puts baby in a corner</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 07 Aug 2026 04:00:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[audition]]></category>
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		<title>Complaining doesn&#8217;t create change</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 30 Jul 2026 04:00:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<title>Major life changes take time to settle into. Be patient</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Jul 2026 04:00:25 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[body shaming]]></category>
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		<title>Stop trying to be close with people who aren&#8217;t interested</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Jun 2026 04:00:33 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[annoyed]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[dogs]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[dress code]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[inappropriate behaviour]]></category>
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		<title>Bare feet should be treated like any other body part in public</title>
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		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/bare-feet-should-be-treated-like-any-other-body-part-in-public/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Jun 2026 04:00:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[babies]]></category>
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		<title>We can&#8217;t control other people&#8217;s actions; we can only control our reactions</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 21 May 2026 04:00:36 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[cancelled]]></category>
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		<title>It&#8217;s never too late to get healthy. Go for it!</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 19 May 2026 04:00:05 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[control]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[sports]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[weight issues]]></category>
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		<title>Family can be so complicated&#8230;..</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 08 May 2026 04:00:31 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[alimony]]></category>
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