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		<title>We can&#8217;t control other people&#8217;s actions; we can only control our reactions</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 21 May 2026 04:00:36 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<title>It&#8217;s never too late to get healthy. Go for it!</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 19 May 2026 04:00:05 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[control]]></category>
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		<title>Family can be so complicated&#8230;..</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 08 May 2026 04:00:31 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[alimony]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[betrayal]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[child support]]></category>
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		<title>You&#8217;re not your sister&#8217;s keeper</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 08 Apr 2026 04:00:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Affairs]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[apology]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[approval]]></category>
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		<title>When love crosses your path, go for it.</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Apr 2026 04:00:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[anger]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[anorexia]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[bulimia]]></category>
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		<title>When it gets overwhelming, spend some time in nature</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 31 Mar 2026 04:00:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[abuse]]></category>
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		<title>When it comes to your health, get professional medical advice</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Mar 2026 04:00:36 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<title>Newly-single seniors often need help navigating aspects of their lives</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Feb 2026 05:00:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Addictions]]></category>
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		<title>A trend is usually larger than just a few people</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 29 Dec 2025 05:00:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<title>Trust your partner when they&#8217;re away from you</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 24 Dec 2025 05:00:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[breaking up]]></category>
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