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		<title>It&#8217;s Eating Disorder Awareness Week</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Feb 2026 05:00:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Get help for your control issues before they ruin your relationships</title>
		<link>https://ellieadvice.com/get-help-for-your-control-issues-before-they-ruin-your-relationships/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 24 Feb 2025 05:00:33 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Bullying]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[control]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[controlling]]></category>
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		<title>Friendship shouldn&#8217;t be based on financial status</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 08 May 2024 04:00:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[budget]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[control issues]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[label]]></category>
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		<title>Getting to know someone is a back-and-forth conversation, not a one-sided tell-all</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Feb 2024 05:00:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[anxiety]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[attraction]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Brides]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Commitment]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[compromise]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[control issues]]></category>
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		<title>Present relationships take precedence over past ones</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Dec 2023 05:00:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[binge eating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[compassion]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[conflict]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[control issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[coping mechanism]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[depression]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[eating disorders]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[empathy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[exes]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[family]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[gifting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Health Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[impulsivity]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[judgement]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[self-discipline]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[stress]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[trauma]]></category>
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		<title>When past secrets surface, don&#8217;t let them derail you</title>
		<link>https://ellieadvice.com/when-past-secrets-surface-dont-let-them-derail-you/</link>
		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/when-past-secrets-surface-dont-let-them-derail-you/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 14 Oct 2023 04:00:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[abandonment]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[abuse]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Addictions]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[adultery]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Affairs]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[condolences]]></category>
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		<title>Prenuptial agreements can make or break impending nuptials</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 30 Sep 2023 04:00:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[boring]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[control issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[depression]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[respect]]></category>
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		<title>Adult children have the right to privacy, even from their parents</title>
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		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/adult-children-have-the-right-to-privacy-even-from-their-parents/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 23 Sep 2023 04:00:22 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[anger]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[boundaries]]></category>
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		<title>People react when life doesn&#8217;t go their way</title>
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		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/people-react-when-life-doesnt-go-their-way/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Feb 2023 05:00:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Column]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[aggression]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[break-up]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Bullying]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[communication]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
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		<title>With age comes confidence and peace</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Nov 2022 05:00:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[classic manipulation]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[siblings]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[social media]]></category>
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