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		<title>Protect those you love, but don&#8217;t jump the gun</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Mar 2026 04:00:31 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[break-up]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[consequences]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[exhaustion]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[family]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[family support]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[In-laws]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[long-distance dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Marriage]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[names]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[parenting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[protection]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[regrets]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[secret]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[selfish]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[siblings]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[work travel]]></category>

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		<title>Masking insecurity by partying too hard usually backfires</title>
		<link>https://ellieadvice.com/masking-insecurity-by-partying-too-hard-usually-backfires/</link>
		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/masking-insecurity-by-partying-too-hard-usually-backfires/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Feb 2026 05:00:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Column]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Al-Anon]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[alcohol abuse]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[aphrodisiac]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[apology]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[attitude]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[boundaries]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[consequences]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[dress code]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[drunk]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[embarrassment]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[emotional intimacy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[family]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Friendship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[gift]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[grateful]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[gratitude]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[In-laws]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[intimacy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[laughter]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Marriage]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[party]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[shock]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[sleep habits]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[stripper]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[turn-on]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Withholding Sex]]></category>

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		<title>Seek professional advice, NOT Doctor Google</title>
		<link>https://ellieadvice.com/seek-professional-advice-not-doctor-google/</link>
		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/seek-professional-advice-not-doctor-google/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Jan 2026 05:00:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Column]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[abuse]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[advice]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[blame]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[consequences]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[fear]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Fighting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[generosity]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[gratitude]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Health Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[holidays]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[instincts]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[mental health issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[mid-life crisis]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Money Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[overprotective]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[parental control]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[parental instinct]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[parenting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[persistent]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[pressure]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Red Flags]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[sexual abuse]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[siblings]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[support]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[swearing]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Teenagers]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[vacation]]></category>

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		<title>Not all friendships last a lifetime</title>
		<link>https://ellieadvice.com/not-all-friendships-last-a-lifetime-3/</link>
		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/not-all-friendships-last-a-lifetime-3/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 03 Nov 2025 05:00:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Column]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[consequences]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Fighting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Friendship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[learned behaviour]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[life skill]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[obligation]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[parenting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[responsibility]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[stereotype]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Teenagers]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[time management]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Youth]]></category>

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		<title>You may be divorced, but he&#8217;s still your child&#8217;s father</title>
		<link>https://ellieadvice.com/you-may-be-divorced-but-hes-still-your-childs-father/</link>
		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/you-may-be-divorced-but-hes-still-your-childs-father/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 29 Jan 2025 05:00:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Column]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[abuse]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[ambition]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[child support]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[consequences]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[custody]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Divorce]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[exes]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[family]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Friendship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[injustice]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[job security]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Money Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[parental abandonment]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[parenting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Red Flags]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[sexual harassment]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[social discomfort]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[triggers]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[trust]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[workplace harassment]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[workplace issues]]></category>

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		<title>Take care of yourself so you have the strength to take care of others</title>
		<link>https://ellieadvice.com/take-care-of-yourself-so-you-have-the-strength-to-take-care-of-others/</link>
		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/take-care-of-yourself-so-you-have-the-strength-to-take-care-of-others/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 29 Oct 2024 04:00:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Column]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[consequences]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[faking]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[family]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Friendship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[guilt]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Health Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[hurt]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[In-laws]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Lying]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Marriage]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[memories]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[mental health issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[parental instinct]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[parenting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[sleep issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[support]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[visit]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[work travel]]></category>

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		<title>Letting your children fail when their young is safe and healthy</title>
		<link>https://ellieadvice.com/letting-your-children-fail-when-their-young-is-safe-and-healthy/</link>
		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/letting-your-children-fail-when-their-young-is-safe-and-healthy/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Aug 2024 04:00:15 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Column]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Affairs]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[attentive]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[betrayal]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Cheating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[conflict]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[consequences]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Divorce]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[family]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Friendship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Marriage]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Money Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[parenting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[personal hygiene]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[shock]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[sleep-over]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[sports]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[teachable moment]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[vacation]]></category>

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		<title>Navigating teenagers is a wild ride</title>
		<link>https://ellieadvice.com/navigating-teenagers-is-a-wild-ride/</link>
		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/navigating-teenagers-is-a-wild-ride/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Feb 2024 05:00:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Column]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[age differences]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[balance]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Blended Families]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[boundaries]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[confrontation]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[consequences]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[distress]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[expectations]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[family]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[incarceration]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[independance]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Marriage]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[mental health issues]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[parenting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[privacy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[reckless driving]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[regrets]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Step Parents]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[stress]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Teenagers]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[tension]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[work-related issues]]></category>

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		<title>You are not responsible for your siblings&#8217; actions</title>
		<link>https://ellieadvice.com/you-are-not-responsible-for-your-siblings-actions/</link>
		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/you-are-not-responsible-for-your-siblings-actions/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Feb 2024 05:00:15 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Column]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[apology]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[compassion]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[consequences]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[family]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[family vacations]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Friendship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[holidays]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[insecure]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[mean girls]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Money Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[parenting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[politics]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[privacy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[punishment]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[religion]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[shop-talk]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[siblings]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[style]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[tattoos]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Teenagers]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[victimized]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[work-related issues]]></category>

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		<title>Crush? Fantasy NOT reality</title>
		<link>https://ellieadvice.com/crush-fantasy-not-reality/</link>
		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/crush-fantasy-not-reality/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 10 Apr 2015 04:00:28 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Column]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Commitment]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[consequences]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Crushes]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Flirting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[responsibility]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Teenagers]]></category>

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