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		<title>Sometimes, life is a shit storm</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Nov 2026 05:00:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Don&#8217;t believe everything you hear</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 04 Nov 2026 05:00:52 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<title>The natural cycle of life is still hard to swallow</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Oct 2026 04:00:01 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<title>Helpful neighbours are wonderful until it becomes too familiar</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Oct 2026 04:00:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Communal spaces should not be used for private dealings</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 05 Oct 2026 04:00:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[cancer]]></category>
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		<title>Showing up is proof that you care</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Sep 2026 04:00:33 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[false accusations]]></category>
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		<title>Separate the past from the present as best possible</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 27 Aug 2026 04:00:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>It&#8217;s important to discuss EVERYTHING before marriage</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 26 Aug 2026 04:00:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Friendships go through phases; make the most of each one</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 31 Jul 2026 04:00:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>When you&#8217;re feeling overwhelmed, take time for yourself</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 11 Jul 2026 04:00:56 +0000</pubDate>
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