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		<title>Being rude to salespeople is unnecessary</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Jun 2026 04:00:07 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[abuse]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[calm]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[deadline]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[disrespectful]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Fighting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[grief]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[immature]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[loss of a pet]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[pet fatigue]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[relationships]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[travel]]></category>
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		<title>Fear can stop us in our tracks</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Jun 2026 04:00:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[attention seekers]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[betrayal]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[boundaries]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[child support]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[cry for help]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[disappointment]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[family]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[feelings]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Health Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[judgement]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[long-distance dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[lovers]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Marriage]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Money Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[parenting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[partnership]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[pregnancy]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[secrets]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[siblings]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Teenagers]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[toxic]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[vacation]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[violence]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Youth]]></category>

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		<title>Decide what you want, then figure out how to get it</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Jun 2026 04:00:28 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Column]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[autism]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[boundaries]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Cheating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[complain]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[distancing]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Divorce]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[family]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Flirting]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[generous]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[gossip]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[grandparenting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[grieve]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Health Issues]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[integrity]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[kind]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Lying]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Marriage]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[neurodiverse]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[regrets]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Romance]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[shock]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[sincere]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[support]]></category>

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		<title>A true friendship relies on honesty</title>
		<link>https://ellieadvice.com/a-true-friendship-relies-on-honesty/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 22 May 2026 04:00:39 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Column]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[boundaries]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[empathy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[excuses]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[financial insecurity]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[guilt]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[honesty]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[manners]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[respectful]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[support]]></category>
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		<title>NO ONE should force ANYONE into sex</title>
		<link>https://ellieadvice.com/no-one-should-force-anyone-into-sex/</link>
		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/no-one-should-force-anyone-into-sex/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 13 May 2026 04:00:52 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[blackmail]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[boundaries]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Divorce]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[family]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Friendship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[immature]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Marriage]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[puberty]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[responsibility]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Separated]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[shame]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Suicide]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[tax widower]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[taxes]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Teenagers]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Unhealthy Relationships]]></category>

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		<title>Parent-child relationship is constantly in flux</title>
		<link>https://ellieadvice.com/parent-child-relationship-is-constantly-in-flux/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 29 Apr 2026 04:00:05 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[boundaries]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[entitled]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[expectations]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[expelled]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[fairness]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[family]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[patience]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[retired]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[rude]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[suspension]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Teenagers]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[texting]]></category>

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		<title>If you&#8217;re not happy, make changes to your life</title>
		<link>https://ellieadvice.com/if-youre-not-happy-make-changes-to-your-life/</link>
		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/if-youre-not-happy-make-changes-to-your-life/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 20 Apr 2026 04:00:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[anniversary]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[boundaries]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[communication]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[exes]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[intimacy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Marriage]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[parenting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Passion]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[respect]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[self-confidence]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[self-esteem]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Sex]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[temptation]]></category>
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		<title>There&#8217;s no grief like the loss of a pet</title>
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		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/theres-no-grief-like-the-loss-of-a-pet/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Feb 2026 05:00:53 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Addictions]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[adoption]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[allergies]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[boundaries]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[cathartic]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[cleanliness]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[condoms]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[devoted]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[emptiness]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[senior]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Sex]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[siblings]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[sleepovers]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[UTI]]></category>

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		<title>Masking insecurity by partying too hard usually backfires</title>
		<link>https://ellieadvice.com/masking-insecurity-by-partying-too-hard-usually-backfires/</link>
		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/masking-insecurity-by-partying-too-hard-usually-backfires/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Feb 2026 05:00:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Column]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Al-Anon]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[alcohol abuse]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[aphrodisiac]]></category>
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		<title>Two&#8217;s a couple; three&#8217;s a throuple</title>
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		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/twos-a-couple-threes-a-throuple/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Feb 2026 05:00:03 +0000</pubDate>
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