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		<title>There&#8217;s no grief like the loss of a pet</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Feb 2026 05:00:53 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<title>Masking insecurity by partying too hard usually backfires</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Feb 2026 05:00:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<title>Two&#8217;s a couple; three&#8217;s a throuple</title>
		<link>https://ellieadvice.com/twos-a-couple-threes-a-throuple/</link>
		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/twos-a-couple-threes-a-throuple/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Feb 2026 05:00:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<title>Other people&#8217;s partners do NOT have to be your best friend</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Jan 2026 05:00:42 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[siblings]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[sympathy]]></category>
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		<title>Set boundaries with people, if necessary</title>
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		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/set-boundaries-with-people-if-necessary/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Dec 2025 05:00:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[annoy]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[compassion]]></category>
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		<title>More kids, more bills</title>
		<link>https://ellieadvice.com/more-kids-more-bills/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Nov 2025 05:00:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[boundaries]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[conception&pregnancy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[confidence]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[disrespectful]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[double income]]></category>
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		<title>Roommate issues are easily solved with departure</title>
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		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/roommate-issues-are-easily-solved-with-departure/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 05 Nov 2025 05:00:44 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[boundaries]]></category>
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		<title>Speak up for what you believe &#8211; but always take precaution</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Oct 2025 04:00:07 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[anxiety]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[cancer]]></category>
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		<title>Respect people&#8217;s privacy</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Sep 2025 04:00:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<title>For some, three isn&#8217;t a crowd</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 13 Sep 2025 04:00:52 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[aggressive]]></category>
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