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	<title>Ellie &#187; blame</title>
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		<title>We are not responsible for the behaviour of our adult family members</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 18 Apr 2026 04:00:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[abuse]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[ADD]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[anniversary]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[drunk]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Friendship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[kindness]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Lying]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Money Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Red Flags]]></category>
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		<title>Change of situation, change of attitude</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Feb 2026 05:00:33 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Column]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[affection]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[attitude]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[blame]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[breakups]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Cheating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[cold]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[denial]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[dignity]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[family]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[feelings]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Friendship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[hurt]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Marriage]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[parenting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[petty]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[punctual]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[self-respect]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[shut-down]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[split]]></category>

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		<title>Seek professional advice, NOT Doctor Google</title>
		<link>https://ellieadvice.com/seek-professional-advice-not-doctor-google/</link>
		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/seek-professional-advice-not-doctor-google/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Jan 2026 05:00:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Column]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[abuse]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[advice]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[blame]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[consequences]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[fear]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Fighting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[generosity]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[gratitude]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Health Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[holidays]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[instincts]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[mental health issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[mid-life crisis]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Money Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[overprotective]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[parental control]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[parental instinct]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[parenting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[persistent]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[pressure]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Red Flags]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[sexual abuse]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[siblings]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[support]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[swearing]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Teenagers]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[vacation]]></category>

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		<title>Everyone is allowed to like what they like</title>
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		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/everyone-is-allowed-to-like-what-they-like/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 20 Dec 2025 05:00:36 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Column]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[blame]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[breakups]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[celebrity]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[change]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[clarity]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[family]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[first date]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[generations]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Health Issues]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[marital issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Marriage]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[menstrual cycle]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[missionary]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Passion]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[privacy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Sex]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[social media]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[timing]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[UTI]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Withholding Sex]]></category>

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		<title>MANY people want intimacy as part of their marriage</title>
		<link>https://ellieadvice.com/many-people-want-intimacy-as-part-of-their-marriage/</link>
		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/many-people-want-intimacy-as-part-of-their-marriage/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Dec 2025 05:00:28 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Column]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[affection]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[anger]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[apology]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[ashamed]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[betrayal]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[blame]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dumped]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[family]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Friendship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[grandparenting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[guilty]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Health Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[hormonal imbalance]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[horny]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[In-laws]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Marriage]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[menopause]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[moods]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[parenting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[postpartum]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[reaction]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Sex]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[snuggle]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[spoiled]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[truth]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Withholding Sex]]></category>

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		<title>Asking questions is the only way to get answers</title>
		<link>https://ellieadvice.com/asking-questions-is-the-only-way-to-get-answers/</link>
		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/asking-questions-is-the-only-way-to-get-answers/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Dec 2025 05:00:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Column]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Affairs]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[alcohol abuse]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[blame]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[drunk]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[empty nesters]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[gay]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Marriage]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[motorcycles]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[parenting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[risk]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Romance]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[roommate]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[safety]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[seniors]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[single]]></category>
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		<title>Stealing is illegal &#8211; full stop</title>
		<link>https://ellieadvice.com/stealing-is-illegal-full-stop/</link>
		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/stealing-is-illegal-full-stop/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 28 Nov 2025 05:00:22 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[blame]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Covid-19]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[motorcycles]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[parenting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[responsibility]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[rules]]></category>
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		<title>Al-Anon can help families and partners of addicts</title>
		<link>https://ellieadvice.com/al-anon-can-help-families-and-partners-of-addicts/</link>
		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/al-anon-can-help-families-and-partners-of-addicts/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 10 Nov 2025 05:00:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Column]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[abandonment]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[acceptance]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Addictions]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[anger]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[anxiety]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[bipolar disorder]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[blame]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Blended Families]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[borderline personality disorder]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Death]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[disappointment]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Divorce]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[drug overdose]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[drugs and alcohol]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[exes]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[family]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Friendship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[grandparenting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[grief]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[grief counselling]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[In-laws]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[loss of a loved one]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[marijuana]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[mental health issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Money Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[parenting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[PTSD]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[rude]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[stillbirth]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[suicidal ideation]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[trauma]]></category>

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		<title>Seek the advice of a nutritionist and dietician to better understand food</title>
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		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/seek-the-advice-of-a-nutritionist-and-dietician-to-better-understand-food/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Jul 2025 04:00:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Column]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[anorexia]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[asexuality]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[blame]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[dietary issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[double standards]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[eating habits]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[foodie]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Friendship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[guilt]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[judgement]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[nutrition]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[nutritionist]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[power]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Sex]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[shame]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[siblings]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[trophy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Unhealthy Relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Withholding Sex]]></category>

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		<title>Fashion is not mandatory</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Jun 2025 04:00:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[alcohol abuse]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[blame]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[creepy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[fashion]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[flattery]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[intoxicated]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[jet lag]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[lecherous]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[opinionated]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[sexual predators]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Teenagers]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[trends]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[work travel]]></category>

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